The 10 Things That Women Tell Their Friends They Hate About You, In Bed

Have you ever heard what a conversation amongst women is like? Truth is, women do not only discussed topics such as the latest model of high-heels on sale or about their kids. Women do discuss about sex and it is apparently one of their favorite topics. Do not be surprise if they ever complain about your sexual performance to their friends.

So how do you prevent yourself from becoming the joke among your woman’s girlfriends? Simple, make sure you are damn good in bed.

Below are 10 common sex mistakes that many men commit when trying to get into a sex position.

Mistake 1: Pumping hard like a Jack Hammer.

The worst place any men can learn how to be good in bed is to learn from porn videos. Many of the sex techniques in these videos are designed only for visual stimuli. Pumping her hard and fast through out will only cause her to become sore more quickly.

Sex is not just a one sided affair. Instead of acting out a scene of a porn movie, pay more attention to her body language and watch out for things that she enjoys you to do.

Mistake 2: Staying in the same sex position throughout the session.

Think about it, do you enjoy it when your woman is only licking the tip of your penis for the next 10 minutes, without actually going down on you all the way? I’m sure it sucks big time.

It is also the same for women if you continue hump away in the same sex position for the next 20 minutes. Keeping your routine stagnant will eventually bore her and she may start to lose interest in sex, with you.

Instead, learn to transit from one sexual position to another without breaking the momentum.

Mistake 3: Attempting to be fanciful in bed.

Although it’s better to have variations in your sex techniques, do not over do it for the sake of impressing her.

Over complicating things can disrupt the atmosphere for good sex. Just stick to positions that she can get into easily and focus on stimulating her.

Mistake 4: “Dead Fish” position?

Don’t be mistaken, this is not a new sex position. In fact, this is a fairly common position where a woman gets on top of you.

The only difference, is that you are just lying there like a “dead fish” and not doing anything. Hence the name, “Dead Fish” position.

While you may be relieve that now it is your turn to lie on your back and rest, the deed is not yet over.

While you lie on your back, caress and fondle her bum as you suck on her nipples. This will further arouse her and it’s one of the proven methods that women get their orgasms from.

Mistake 5: Inferior Complexity in Bed.

It is okay to let her take control once in awhile to understand where she likes to be touch and stimulated.

Avoid asking her too much about how she feels in bed while you are at it, inside of her. This is a sure way turn her off as it shows the weakness of your uncertainty.

If you portray yourself as somebody who lacks confidence, she’ll pick up these signs and eventually she may even pass having sex with you. Women want a real man in bed not a weakling.

Mistake 6: Unkept Bush

Always have the habit of “mowing the lawn” before you engage oral sex with your partner. Most women actually prefer their men to trim their pubic area.

Having wisp of hair caught on her tongue would be a great way to say goodbye to your last oral sex you will ever get from her.

Mistake 7: Smelling like a dead squid

One of the biggest turn off for women in bed, is to smell as if you have not showered for days. Especially if you want her to go down on you, do wash yourself clean and apply some male pheromone infused perfume on your pubic area to entice her.

Mistake 8: Taking Things for granted

You should never be complacent and get used to your already stale sex routine. Doesn’t mean everytime she is receptive of your sexual advances or she expresses herself in a satisfying manner, means she is enjoying what you are doing.

Do not abuse your privilege of only satisfying yourself when you are in bed with her. Eventually she will feel that making love with you is only a one-sided affair and she may not be as enthusiastic about having sex with you in the future.

Mistake 9: Not being creative enough

Don’t be afraid of introducing foreign items into your love-making routine. You will be surprise to see how it will excite your woman when she is unable to expect what is to come after wards.

Introduce food such as whip cream, chocolate sauce or any of her favorite candy. Women get especially turn on if she see’s you licking off her favorite “sinful pleasure” off her body.

Mistake 10: Failing to communicate

This is by far the most important factor to be taken into consideration, if couples want to enjoy great sex with their partners. Women has more than one erogenous spot that will trigger orgasms.

However, not all women like stimulation in the same spot. What may have worked on your previous partner maybe result in a totally different reaction from your current partner. Take time to learn the hot spots of your partner. If necessary, ask her to guide your hand along her favorite positions.

P.S Now that you know the mistakes that majority of the men are making. It is important not to commit these errors if you want to stand out from the crowd. Go correct these mistakes and you can be sure that this time, your girlfriend will brag to her friends about your performance in bed instead!

A Woman’s Perspective On Intensifying Female Orgasms

If your woman has never been able to achieve that mind-blowing orgasms that everybody’s talking about. This could be the reason why. You should let your girlfriend or wife see this!

Sexual Tension – I Was Forced Into Having Sex

I’ve not told anyone about this yet, except for my good friend, “The Legend”; who was with me last night.

I felt violated, I was forced into having sex with a girl I had no interest in!  It felt  as if I was getting  rape!

I recieved a call late last night, around half past eleven when I was already sleeping.

 It was “The Legend”. He said something about a new club in town and he wanted us to check out the scene together.

I declined his invitation. I haven’t slept a wink for more than 24hrs. I had been slogging off a project for a local magazine the previous night.  I was dead beat. 

But he wouldn’t let me off the hook. He always had a way to make me say yes to him.. So I put on my clothes and drove off to meet him.

Within half an hour, I was already waiting outside theclub for him. The name of the club is called Lunar. “The Legend” arrived shortly and we proceeded to the club.

The music was banging… But I couldn’t care less of my suroundings. I just wanted to sit down and rest. The live band was pretty good though, with all its latest Canto Pop singles.

Then came the interval… My jaw dropped even though I was almost half asleep.

Three girls in skimpy glittery clothing started walking towards us. They went on top of our table and started dancing wildly!  Then I realised thatwe were actually sitting in the VIP area.

I looked over to “The Legend” and he flashed a sly smile. 

“How’d you like it?” He said. “I know you’ve been working ur ass off on that project, it’s time to let loose now”.

I didn’t had the mood to party. I was still half awoken state. The girls sat between us. “The Legend” had his arms around two of them.

One thing for sure, the girls aren’t pole dancers for nothing. They were… HOT!

The one that snuggled up beside me, she had long black hair with a blond highlighting on a portion of  her fringe… She kinda reminded me of  ”Rogue” in the Xmen movies. But she had the body of “Jean”, the red haired girl who has the ability to control shit loads of stuffs with her mind; in the same movie.  

She was slim and tall… But I wish she had a little more flesh on her. Runway models are just not my type. I prefer my woman, volumptuous.

She was trying hard to chat up with me. But, I guess it was part of her job.

My mind was in a blank.  Every question she asked me, I randomly replied with a slapstick comment that just came out from the top of my head. 

Surprisingly, she found me amusing and I hadn’t even tried getting fresh with her.

At the corner of my eye, I spotted “The Legend” already making out with the other two girls. One of his hand was under the skirt of one of the girls.

“You’re different”, she finally said.

“No, I’m not gay”, I replied in a serious tone. 

“I don’t mean that”, she laughed. “Every guy I met would have his hands all over me by now, but you’re a gentleman“.

“Thank you”, I smiled and I looked away.

For the rest of the night, she was trying to get my attention. But I wasn’t feeling  up to it. Besides, I’m not the kind of guy who would fuck every time an opportunity presents itself. I have my standards.

When it was time to leave, “The Legend” asked he could have a lift from me back to his place.

He rode a motorcycle. But, he couldn’t give a lift to all  three persons at the same time. The two girls were going back to his place. 

So out of politeness, I turned to the tall girl and asked where I could drop her off. She said she was following them, because she was worried about her friends.

You won’t be able to imagine how sleepy I was the other night. I dozed off a couple of times when I was driving. She actually thought it was cute – nutcase!

You must be wondering why i haven’t introduced her. I’m not going to now, because I’ve completely forgotten her name. I guess it’s better this way, she wasn’t somebody I want to remember anyway.

I thought she was a nightmare and a wetdream fused into one.

But she was helpful. She made sure  I stayed awake throughout the journey.

When we arrived at “The Legend’s” apartment, the first thing he did was to turn on the stereo. He and the girls started dancing to Pussycat Doll’s buttons.

I told him that I’ll be taking a nap at his place and I slumped over his couch. He took the party to the next room.

Finally, I felt a sense of relief. Suddenly, I felt somebody rubbing on my thighs. It was that freakin gal!

She was doing a strip lap dance on me! I pushed her away, telling her that I just wanted to sleep. But she thought I was playing hard to get!

In a few moments, she had my ‘dong’ in her mouth. She was literally swallowing me whole.

I was struggling between pleasure and sense of violation.

Never in my whole life have I had sex without my own free will.

I have had mixed feelings about this…

You must be thinking how ridiculous I am to whine at something like that happened to me. But that’s not the point. The reason why I’m sharing this story with you because there’s pure gold waiting to be uncovered!

Think about this. Here’s a decent looking dancer where rich guys would shower with cash, in order to get her attention (decent looking is actually an understatement. But, each to his own I guess).

But here am I, doing nothing and she’s on her knees working on me.

The “Gold” I’m talking about is basically not to do anything and you can still get laid! 

Here’s why. 

Hot women are used to guys paying for their attention. When they meet somebody who doesn’t do the same thing like 90% of the guys out there. She’ll start to have self-doubts, followed by intrigue.

When she tried coming on to me, it was probably a test to see if I would give in to my lust like everybody else. But she is caught off her guard when I “pushed her off”.

In fact, the more I pushed her away… The more she comes back to me.

Here’s the thing, I didn’t tell her I dislike her. But I didn’t show any interest either. I just did nothing!

She must be wondering why I keep pushing her away when I didn’t say I dislike her. In fact, I still offered her a ride home!

This is what I call, Sexual Tension. The building up of curiosity and attraction at the same time. I know it sounds crazy. But it works best on attractive looking women who are used to getting pampered.

So the next time you see a hot looking woman you can’t wait to f**k, you’ll know what to do. Good Luck!

Alright, I gotta get back to work now. Hope you enjoyed what I shared. Feel free to post any feedback or questions. I’ll try to get back to you as soon as I can.

The One Thing That Every Guy Gets It Wrong During Intercourse

Last weekend, I met up with an old  high school friend that I’ve not seen in years. We had the usual catch up  dinner sort of thing at one of the local Thai-themed restaurants, called Sakura. The food is really good, especially the Oyster Ommelette.

Just in case you come here (Singapore) on a holiday, you might wanna go to the Far East Plaza Shopping Centre to check that out.

But I digress.

She asked me what I did for a living and I told her I write.

She was astonished.  After all, back in high school, I used to let her write all my essays for me. I suck  pretty much in almost every subject except chemistry. Heck, I even suck at art!

You must be thinking what a nerd I am.

Well, you are right. I was pretty much a nerd.  But, only ON THE INSIDE.

Anyway, back to the story. I found out that she had quite a spontaneous lifestyle. She did whatever that interests her and she never allowed herself to be tied up by one man. Over the past few years, she had done a lot of travelling, meeting new people.

She was totally different from the shy and reserved girl in high school. Come to think of it now, she must have gotten sick of  people taking her for granted all the time… I actually felt guilty.

“So what do you write about?” she asked.

“I’m writing about adult education”. I said, trying to divert the conversation.

Well, I can be pretty conservative in what I do, especially towards friends and relatives. To most of them, it always seems like a big deal whenever sex is involved.

The older generation would look at sex as if it was never part of their reality. To them, sex is obscene and shameful and should only be practised behind closed doors.

The younger generation however, tend to put sex on a pedestal. There was once, where a few of my friends were hoping to get lucky with women at a club.  They started going around telling women that there’s a  Sex Instructor amongst them, thinking it would attract their attention.

I think we both know, it’s not going to happen that way.

Anyway, she was really persistent. So I finally gave in.

“I’m writing a book about giving women better orgasms“. I admitted.

The rest of the night, is history… No, we didn’t have sex. But she gave me some really insightful information from a female perspective, which I want to share with you.

Her: I prefer to have a lot of interaction with my partner during sex.

Me: What do you mean by interaction?

Her: Well, I love to tease him and be teased in return. I like being tickled and it really turns me on to watch him remove my clothing slowly, piece by piece.

It can get really exciting, because I won’t know what he’ll be up to next.

Me: Nice… So what is the thing that most guys got it wrong during sex?

Her: Well, not kissing and cuddling enough. My last boyfriend literally head south everytime we begin. He doesn’t even go down on me. I actually felt like a whore doing it with him. He’ll just finish his deed and fall asleep right after.

Me: Yeah, foreplay is really important. I think women usually reach orgasms much faster if the foreplay was much longer.

Her: Exactly! It alsot makes me feel closer to my partner and I would want to do it with him, even more.

Me: So, have you faked orgasms when you were with your previous boyfriend?

Her: Yeah, I have to. I just want to get it done and over with quickly.

Me: Is it because he’s trying too hard to make you come that it hurts after awhile?

Her: Not really, I just find it really boring and a drag to do it with him.

Me: I know it sucks. You are definitely not the only women who have to put up with men like that.

Her: Yeah, and it’s so frustrating.

Me: A lot of women don’t come during vaginal penetration. What’s your take on that?

Her: It really depends. But I think I know where the problem is. Most guys tend to thrust in and out. Sometimes I can’t even feel him inside me if he goes too fast. But instead if he rocks up and down, I can come really quickly even if he leaves his penis inside me throughout.

Well, this conversation is as far as it goes. But, it pretty much sums up everything you need to do in bed, with your partner.

We bid our goodbyes and I told her I may need her to help me co-write the upcoming book as well.

By now you should know better than your peers that foreplay is really important to a woman.

Remember, when you’re already down south, do not make the mistake of  thrusting in and out like a porntstar. Keep your body close and rock her, as if you are grinding her.

I guess I shall stop here in case you get info-constipated. Try it out with your partner, and see the results for yourself!

P.S. I’m not sure if your woman ever comes clean with how she feels about having sex with you. But just to be safe,  have a look at this to have a better idea of what’s on her mind.

Multiple Female Orgasms – The 4 Steps I Did To Make her “Cum” 3 Times In 15 minutes!

Lets be honest with ourselves. How often do you ask your partner for sex compared to her taking the initiative to lead you into it?

I can tell you that most of the time when she has sex with you, it is not because she wants it badly, but to prevent hurting your so delicate ego. If you don’t believe me, ask her.

As time goes by, she will begin to lose interest in having sex with you altogether and you will hear her making excuses like “I’m tired” or “I’m not in the mood for it”.

What does it mean? In translation, “You suck in bed and I’m not going to have sex with you”.

That’s a wake up call for you my friend, a warning sign that she may walk out on you if don’t rectify the problem. If you can’t give her that orgasm that she hopes from you, eventually someone else will.

I’m not here trying to diss you man, but that’s the truth! Reality bites! The sooner you find out, the better your chances of saving your relationship with her.

Threathening to kill yourself to get her stay by your side its not going to solve the problem. I have a better solution for you.

What if I told you that you could just turn the tables around in a night and have her beg you for more sex instead? One thing for sure, I did.

I actually had to fake my own orgasm when my girlfriend came 3 times in a row! Within 15 mins, she was literally shaking on her third climax that I had to pin her down. She was almost completely exhausted when I was only beginning!

Nevertheless, my girlfriend continued. I knew she wanted me to experience the same pleasure like she did. She was forcing herself through the exhaustion and I just couldn’t bear to take my own sweet time.

So I faked my orgasm. I lied to her that I jerked off the day before which caused my “cartridge” to be empty. I reassured her that I felt very good before tucking her to bed.

Now, don’t say I didn’t warn you…  This could happen to you, if you applied the same technique as I did.

So far, I’ve only shared this 3-step method to only 3 guys and all of them became Sex Magnets in their own rights! Women just can’t seem to get enough of them!

Now its really up to you to become a Sex Magnet. The results are astounding!

Now, let’s get cracking!

First of all, forget what everything you think you knew about giving multiple female orgasms to women.

Forget about exercises that help you hold your ejaculation for a longer period of time. You are going against your nature!

Look, male animals in the wild don’t hold their cum. In fact, taking a longer time to thrust actually annoys the females.

The trick is not about having a higher resistance to immature ejaculation, but how to make women climax quickly before you do. If not, at the same time!

The quickest way to giving women multiple orgasms, is to simultaneously stimulate her sexually senstive areas!

Women experience orgasms from stimulation of her clitoris, G-spot, Vagina and most importantly, her mind.

The mind is the most neglected sexual organ in her body! In fact, the mind configures the body to become more sexually receptive which causes her to become very moist in her nether region and swelling in her erogenous areas.

STEP ONE:

Get into the “SPOON position” together with your partner. If you don’t know how to go about doing it, go to www.asianfemaleorgasm.com and download your copy of the sex manuscript. There’s an explanation for it on page 22.

STEP TWO:

As you enter her from behind, lift up her top leg from underneath her thigh. Get her into a comfortable position where you can place your fingers on top of her clitoris. Instead of rubbing her clit in and up down motion, rub it from side to side… Starting from a slow pace. Your thrusting should follow in the same rhythm. Gradually increase your speed and pressure as you go along.

STEP THREE:

Next, have her bottom leg shift backwards until its in between your thighs, like a scissors. This give youreasier access to her G-Spot when you penetrate her.

STEP FOUR:

Next, have your other arm around her shoulders and try to reach for her breasts. As you fondle her, hold her closely to you as you smell her neck and kissing her at the same time. Women always go crazy when you do that. It makes them feel very cherished and safe. This is the stimulation of the mind.

IMPORTANT NOTE:

Point to take note. Do all of these actions simultaneously and your rhythm should match each motion

Just like another skill… Don’t expect to master it immediately. I say give yourself 2 weeks!

In the original Chinese Sex Manual, this position was described as being in harmony with all the senses. In directly translation, it is called the “Union of Sensations”.

Try it tonight!

P.S  I actually learned some killer sex techniques from this lady, just thought of sharing the pot of gold with you.

I would love to hear your success story.

The No Brainer Way To A Woman’s Orgasm.

Congrats! Now that you have got her into your bed. You must be thinking that you’re only a step away from shagging her.

That was exactly how I felt during the first time when I brought a girl back to my place.

But it was also the first time, I screwed up. As bad as it sounds, it actually led me to discover a ridiculously no-brainer way that help me give women unforgettable orgasms every time we have sex.

Here’s what happen. Read more