The 10 Things That Women Tell Their Friends They Hate About You, In Bed

Have you ever heard what a conversation amongst women is like? Truth is, women do not only discussed topics such as the latest model of high-heels on sale or about their kids. Women do discuss about sex and it is apparently one of their favorite topics. Do not be surprise if they ever complain about your sexual performance to their friends.

So how do you prevent yourself from becoming the joke among your woman’s girlfriends? Simple, make sure you are damn good in bed.

Below are 10 common sex mistakes that many men commit when trying to get into a sex position.

Mistake 1: Pumping hard like a Jack Hammer.

The worst place any men can learn how to be good in bed is to learn from porn videos. Many of the sex techniques in these videos are designed only for visual stimuli. Pumping her hard and fast through out will only cause her to become sore more quickly.

Sex is not just a one sided affair. Instead of acting out a scene of a porn movie, pay more attention to her body language and watch out for things that she enjoys you to do.

Mistake 2: Staying in the same sex position throughout the session.

Think about it, do you enjoy it when your woman is only licking the tip of your penis for the next 10 minutes, without actually going down on you all the way? I’m sure it sucks big time.

It is also the same for women if you continue hump away in the same sex position for the next 20 minutes. Keeping your routine stagnant will eventually bore her and she may start to lose interest in sex, with you.

Instead, learn to transit from one sexual position to another without breaking the momentum.

Mistake 3: Attempting to be fanciful in bed.

Although it’s better to have variations in your sex techniques, do not over do it for the sake of impressing her.

Over complicating things can disrupt the atmosphere for good sex. Just stick to positions that she can get into easily and focus on stimulating her.

Mistake 4: “Dead Fish” position?

Don’t be mistaken, this is not a new sex position. In fact, this is a fairly common position where a woman gets on top of you.

The only difference, is that you are just lying there like a “dead fish” and not doing anything. Hence the name, “Dead Fish” position.

While you may be relieve that now it is your turn to lie on your back and rest, the deed is not yet over.

While you lie on your back, caress and fondle her bum as you suck on her nipples. This will further arouse her and it’s one of the proven methods that women get their orgasms from.

Mistake 5: Inferior Complexity in Bed.

It is okay to let her take control once in awhile to understand where she likes to be touch and stimulated.

Avoid asking her too much about how she feels in bed while you are at it, inside of her. This is a sure way turn her off as it shows the weakness of your uncertainty.

If you portray yourself as somebody who lacks confidence, she’ll pick up these signs and eventually she may even pass having sex with you. Women want a real man in bed not a weakling.

Mistake 6: Unkept Bush

Always have the habit of “mowing the lawn” before you engage oral sex with your partner. Most women actually prefer their men to trim their pubic area.

Having wisp of hair caught on her tongue would be a great way to say goodbye to your last oral sex you will ever get from her.

Mistake 7: Smelling like a dead squid

One of the biggest turn off for women in bed, is to smell as if you have not showered for days. Especially if you want her to go down on you, do wash yourself clean and apply some male pheromone infused perfume on your pubic area to entice her.

Mistake 8: Taking Things for granted

You should never be complacent and get used to your already stale sex routine. Doesn’t mean everytime she is receptive of your sexual advances or she expresses herself in a satisfying manner, means she is enjoying what you are doing.

Do not abuse your privilege of only satisfying yourself when you are in bed with her. Eventually she will feel that making love with you is only a one-sided affair and she may not be as enthusiastic about having sex with you in the future.

Mistake 9: Not being creative enough

Don’t be afraid of introducing foreign items into your love-making routine. You will be surprise to see how it will excite your woman when she is unable to expect what is to come after wards.

Introduce food such as whip cream, chocolate sauce or any of her favorite candy. Women get especially turn on if she see’s you licking off her favorite “sinful pleasure” off her body.

Mistake 10: Failing to communicate

This is by far the most important factor to be taken into consideration, if couples want to enjoy great sex with their partners. Women has more than one erogenous spot that will trigger orgasms.

However, not all women like stimulation in the same spot. What may have worked on your previous partner maybe result in a totally different reaction from your current partner. Take time to learn the hot spots of your partner. If necessary, ask her to guide your hand along her favorite positions.

P.S Now that you know the mistakes that majority of the men are making. It is important not to commit these errors if you want to stand out from the crowd. Go correct these mistakes and you can be sure that this time, your girlfriend will brag to her friends about your performance in bed instead!

How To Be The Perfect Guy For Your Woman

Ok, you might have already known this. Women don’t get turn on the same way as guys do. But I’m just gonna organize the differences  so we’ll all get a clearer picture.

We men, get sexually turn on by physical attraction, meaning… If we see a hot girl walking on the streets, the first thing that comes to our mind is, “It must feel really good banging that ass”.

Wheras a woman has a different attraction mechanism. If she sees a hot looking guy, she’ll more likely to go, “I wonder where he gets that tan?” or “He seems really mysterious, I wonder what he’s like”.

Her “sexual” switch will only be turned on until she feels an emotional connection with that person.

Here’s the thing… Most guys want a hot beautiful woman lying next to them in bed. But if she is somebody with a nice personality and character… It’ll be considered a bonus to him.

Women on the contrary, prefer to wake up next to a man whom she feels secure with and can depend on.

To her, having a hot looking guy who meets her requirements would definitely be the best of both worlds.

Having said that, first impression still counts.

If you give her a choice between a well-groomed healthy looking man and a guy who looks like he haven’t shaved in years and haven’t got his teeth brush, who do you think she would pick to go on a date with?

You guess it, the better looking guy of course.. He’s the bonus.

Today, I’m going to share with you how to make yourself more desirable to women and be that BONUS that they have been looking for.

Here’s the hint, Women are very inclined to their senses. Sight,Smell,Hearing, Taste, Touch. Once you are able to stimulate her senses all at once, you will naturally appear more desirable to her.

First of all, you need to groom youself. Women are especially particular about this. She wants a responsible man who takes pride in his appearance.

Women view your grooming as a reflection of how well you will treat her.

We’ll start off with your hair. Forget about the barber, I always had a hard time trying to make my hair less squarish, if you know what I mean.

If you want style, invest in a good hairstylist. Don’t tell your stylist what you want. But, allow her to decide what’s best for you.

After all, they aren’t getting paid to be hairstylist for nothing you know…

Once it’s done…  Make sure your face is clean and hair free. You can keep a little goatee down your chin but not the whole face.

It can be quite a turn off for women when it comes to kissing.

You should always make “love-making” convenient for your woman.

If you have a greasy face and black heads all over, go to a facial spa and let the therapist take care of you. That’s one thing I’m glad I did, before meeting my date.

Next, have your your fingernails trim short… This tells alot about you. It shows women that you pay attention to details.

And of course, you need to get some new clothes. Here’s one thing I don’t trust myself with.

I don’t pick my own clothes. When it comes to fashion, women have a very different taste from men.

If  your sense of dressing was never part of a conversation with women (or in a bad way, if any)… Chances are, you didn’t really make an impression standing out from the rest of the dudes.

I normally let women pick my clothes. We’ll go shopping  and I’ll let them dress me up. Women knows best when it comes to what’s hot and what’s not. .

One thing you should never neglect. You need to have a nice pair of shoes. Women are absolutely big lovers of fanciful shoes.

Even if it’s the last thing that you bother to take notice when it comes to dressing up, to win their heart, you have to share at least one thing in common with them.

Especially something that is visible and they can really relate to.

Next, go to a jewelry store. Get some acessories to add flair to your clothing. It don’t have to be really expensive.In fact, you can get many uniquely crafted designs below 20bucks.

I got many of my accessories from my last trip at BangKok. Accessories can be really good conversational topics

You can either get a necklace, a ring or a bracelet that has some monumental value attached to it. Heck! if you can’t find one… Just think of a good story. Trust me, it works all the time.

I recommend that you wear a dark shirt and have a necklace with a gold/silver pendant around your collar instead of your neck. Let it hang over your first buttom. The contrast is really eye catching.

Now that you’ve already look good, you have to smell good as well. Apply some cologne. Women are really attracted to smell.

I recommend that you buy a pheromone induced cologne that arouse women’s sexual desires, like attracting bees to flowers. You can get it off from your local sex novelty shops.

Bring a breathmint where ever you go. Bad breath is a biggest turn-off… It can actually over write everything you’ve done to be the perfect guy for her.

So don’t let your efforts go to waste. Pop a mint before you go out to meet her.

Now that you are all set… And you are already out on a great date with her, enjoying a sumptuous dinner.

Go to a private place where the both of you can share quality time together. Offer to feed her dessert and  don’t be afraid of cozying up to her and smell her hair.

Then, Stroke her back and give her a gentle rub on her shoulders..

Speak to her in a slow and almost whisper like voice to seduce her. Tell her how nice she smells and you just want to cuddle her throughout the night,  just smelling her.

Women enjoy the attention that you are giving them

Now that you have stimulate all her senses,  you are already setting an emotional anchor. Everytime she has this wonderful experience, she will be reminded of you.

At this point she’ll be hot for you…

It took me quite awhile to piece everything together. But now, you can have the knowledge within a few minutes!

So use this to your advantage my friend. Remember, It’s not about the big things that you do for women, it is about paying attention to little details that sums everything up.

I think it’s time for you to hurry up to the hair salon now, my friend =)

Cheers!

Valentine’s Day Tips – The 10 things You Should Do To Proceed From The Date To Your Bedroom.

Have you ever planned a whole day of exciting activities on Valentine’s Day but things just happen to screw up in between and then you don’t make it past the bedroom with her?

Well, it happened to me all the time.  From my experience of  “celebrating” Valentine’s Day with different women, I realised that being overly nice to them can actually back-fire on you.

If  you haven’t yet noticed, there is actually quite a controversy going on within their views on Valentine’s Day. Some women just don’t appreciate the idea of Valentine’s Day, and guess what? You are probably to be blame for it.

Some women believe that every other day should be just as special and guys shouldn’t just be nice to them only on Valentine’s Day.

The translation is simple. Women just don’t want you to be a jerk to them after Valentine’s day. Read more