How To Be The Perfect Guy For Your Woman

Ok, you might have already known this. Women don’t get turn on the same way as guys do. But I’m just gonna organize the differences  so we’ll all get a clearer picture.

We men, get sexually turn on by physical attraction, meaning… If we see a hot girl walking on the streets, the first thing that comes to our mind is, “It must feel really good banging that ass”.

Wheras a woman has a different attraction mechanism. If she sees a hot looking guy, she’ll more likely to go, “I wonder where he gets that tan?” or “He seems really mysterious, I wonder what he’s like”.

Her “sexual” switch will only be turned on until she feels an emotional connection with that person.

Here’s the thing… Most guys want a hot beautiful woman lying next to them in bed. But if she is somebody with a nice personality and character… It’ll be considered a bonus to him.

Women on the contrary, prefer to wake up next to a man whom she feels secure with and can depend on.

To her, having a hot looking guy who meets her requirements would definitely be the best of both worlds.

Having said that, first impression still counts.

If you give her a choice between a well-groomed healthy looking man and a guy who looks like he haven’t shaved in years and haven’t got his teeth brush, who do you think she would pick to go on a date with?

You guess it, the better looking guy of course.. He’s the bonus.

Today, I’m going to share with you how to make yourself more desirable to women and be that BONUS that they have been looking for.

Here’s the hint, Women are very inclined to their senses. Sight,Smell,Hearing, Taste, Touch. Once you are able to stimulate her senses all at once, you will naturally appear more desirable to her.

First of all, you need to groom youself. Women are especially particular about this. She wants a responsible man who takes pride in his appearance.

Women view your grooming as a reflection of how well you will treat her.

We’ll start off with your hair. Forget about the barber, I always had a hard time trying to make my hair less squarish, if you know what I mean.

If you want style, invest in a good hairstylist. Don’t tell your stylist what you want. But, allow her to decide what’s best for you.

After all, they aren’t getting paid to be hairstylist for nothing you know…

Once it’s done…  Make sure your face is clean and hair free. You can keep a little goatee down your chin but not the whole face.

It can be quite a turn off for women when it comes to kissing.

You should always make “love-making” convenient for your woman.

If you have a greasy face and black heads all over, go to a facial spa and let the therapist take care of you. That’s one thing I’m glad I did, before meeting my date.

Next, have your your fingernails trim short… This tells alot about you. It shows women that you pay attention to details.

And of course, you need to get some new clothes. Here’s one thing I don’t trust myself with.

I don’t pick my own clothes. When it comes to fashion, women have a very different taste from men.

If  your sense of dressing was never part of a conversation with women (or in a bad way, if any)… Chances are, you didn’t really make an impression standing out from the rest of the dudes.

I normally let women pick my clothes. We’ll go shopping  and I’ll let them dress me up. Women knows best when it comes to what’s hot and what’s not. .

One thing you should never neglect. You need to have a nice pair of shoes. Women are absolutely big lovers of fanciful shoes.

Even if it’s the last thing that you bother to take notice when it comes to dressing up, to win their heart, you have to share at least one thing in common with them.

Especially something that is visible and they can really relate to.

Next, go to a jewelry store. Get some acessories to add flair to your clothing. It don’t have to be really expensive.In fact, you can get many uniquely crafted designs below 20bucks.

I got many of my accessories from my last trip at BangKok. Accessories can be really good conversational topics

You can either get a necklace, a ring or a bracelet that has some monumental value attached to it. Heck! if you can’t find one… Just think of a good story. Trust me, it works all the time.

I recommend that you wear a dark shirt and have a necklace with a gold/silver pendant around your collar instead of your neck. Let it hang over your first buttom. The contrast is really eye catching.

Now that you’ve already look good, you have to smell good as well. Apply some cologne. Women are really attracted to smell.

I recommend that you buy a pheromone induced cologne that arouse women’s sexual desires, like attracting bees to flowers. You can get it off from your local sex novelty shops.

Bring a breathmint where ever you go. Bad breath is a biggest turn-off… It can actually over write everything you’ve done to be the perfect guy for her.

So don’t let your efforts go to waste. Pop a mint before you go out to meet her.

Now that you are all set… And you are already out on a great date with her, enjoying a sumptuous dinner.

Go to a private place where the both of you can share quality time together. Offer to feed her dessert and  don’t be afraid of cozying up to her and smell her hair.

Then, Stroke her back and give her a gentle rub on her shoulders..

Speak to her in a slow and almost whisper like voice to seduce her. Tell her how nice she smells and you just want to cuddle her throughout the night,  just smelling her.

Women enjoy the attention that you are giving them

Now that you have stimulate all her senses,  you are already setting an emotional anchor. Everytime she has this wonderful experience, she will be reminded of you.

At this point she’ll be hot for you…

It took me quite awhile to piece everything together. But now, you can have the knowledge within a few minutes!

So use this to your advantage my friend. Remember, It’s not about the big things that you do for women, it is about paying attention to little details that sums everything up.

I think it’s time for you to hurry up to the hair salon now, my friend =)

Cheers!

What I Did To Hook Up With a Nurse While I Was hospitilized – Part 3

 

Hey friend, sorry to keep you waiting for the third installment of the nurse story. You see, I just got back from Bangkok, Thailand.

I had a  great time there. If you’ve never been to Thailand, you’d better check it out at least once.

The ladies there, are way too hot and they’re definitely one of the most out-going, open minded Asian girls I’ve met!

Plus, they are good cooks, attentive to their men needs and they look after their family. What more can you ask for? Honestly, I would consider marrying a Thai woman when I think it’s time to settle down.

 I just have to share the joy with you.

Okay, back to the story.

If you’ve read part 2 of this story, you’ll learn that Jeanette sort of pulled the plug during “Sexcalation” ( Umm… I mean escalating towards sex for short). My heart almost skipped a beat when she told me it wasn’t part of the deal that we had sex.

Well, she didn’t exactly say we can’t fuck. But my hand was already on her tits.  So when she made the remark, she might probably mean I’m not allowed to touch her boobs. But really, who gives a shit at a point like this?

Then, I did what I did best… I pulled back and acted as if nothing had happened. I agreed with her that we shouldn’t be doing this.

You see, here’s a thing you might not know about women. They tend to throw up a defense at the last minute. It is something I like to call a Bitch Armor. 

And why is that so?

It’s no “Da Vinci Code”, really.  Women just don’t want to be caught guilty of being too easy.

It’s their way of turning the red light on themselves, when they get too close of becoming “Slut Mode”.

The worst thing any guy could do at this point, is to force himself on her.

The hungry will not be fed here. So the next time she turns cold fish on you, don’t freak out!

It doesn’t mean that she don’t want to have sex with you. It means that you haven’t made her feel comfortable with you enough.

I tidied my clothes, got up from where I sat and I said, “Come, I’ll take you home”.

But she didn’t follow. She seemed a little flustered, as if not knowing what she did earlier was a right thing to do.

“I’ve no work tomorrow. I can stay for a little longer”, She said.

“Sure, make sure you don’t catch a cold”. Then I got inside the car without her… It was pretty hilarious, you should have seen the look on her face. What I just did was to show her that I wasn’t  needy. And by closing the car door on her, it created a funny moment. Whatever awkward tension that we felt earlier was overwritten.

She got in the car after, and gave me a playful jab in the arm. We started kidding around  again as if none  of  it happened earlier. Then I asked her if she would like to hear the new jazz CD I bought at HMV the previous day.

We held hands as we listen to the soft melody, I think it was by Diana Krall.

After awhile, we were at it again. We started making out. But, it was less intense.

This time,  she took my hand and guided me to her breasts. Somehow, it felt so much softer than the first time. See, I told you. I knew something like this was to happen.

Then I beckoned her to follow as I tried to make my way to the back seat.

I must have put on quite a few pounds lately, I thought to myself. I was struggling  past the front seats.

Jeanette laughed as if she’s watching a clown do something really stupid. She managed to slide up to the back seat with me, easily.

“Now, that’s gonna cost you more than a lap-dance”. I said, implying the cheap entertainment she had earlier.

She smiled slyly, and we continued kissing and fondling each other’s private parts. My “little brother” was once again awoken.

I removed my shirt and I helped her with her dress. I couldn’t keep my eyes of her cleavage. It looked really enticing under the soft moonlight.

She had on a really nice set of snow leopard printed lingerie. I supposed she was also prepared for such a thing to happen.

“Hey little kitty, I’m going to take care of you tonight”. I said as I unclipped her bra from the front. Just what as I thought, she had one of the nicest pair of tits I’ve seen. She smiled at me and she squeezed my ‘dong’ playfully.

I must have been a blessed man to have met a couple of really wonderful girlfriends with well-endowed features. I don’t mean any disrespect to the ladies. But, deep down beyond all the stirring emotions, I’m very much a man.

It was always about the tits and asses. If she had a nice personality, then it would be a bonus.

Women on the contrary, the opposite. They have to feel the emotional connection first, before they give themselves up to you.

I slid my hand inside her panties… She was soaking WET! I suspected that she has not had sex for at least a year!

I went down on her and I tasted her feminine nectar. Jeanette moaned as she arched her back in pleasure. She grabbed my hair and she gasped, “Don’t Stop”,  trying to catch her breath.

I inserted my thumb into a vagina. Jeanette moaned even louder as I rubbed Her G-spot.

Then, she came… Within minutes when I inserted my thumb. Her muscles in the abdominal area contracted rapidly.

She smiled at me with satisfaction… Then she said cheekily, “Kitty’s hungry”. As she got down to her knees, undoing my zip.

 

 

I’ma stop her for awhile. Check back again for part 4!

P.S. You must be wondering where I learnt all the female sexual psychology from.  It’s no big secret really. You can find most of it here.

Valentine’s Day Tips – The 10 things You Should Do To Proceed From The Date To Your Bedroom.

Have you ever planned a whole day of exciting activities on Valentine’s Day but things just happen to screw up in between and then you don’t make it past the bedroom with her?

Well, it happened to me all the time.  From my experience of  “celebrating” Valentine’s Day with different women, I realised that being overly nice to them can actually back-fire on you.

If  you haven’t yet noticed, there is actually quite a controversy going on within their views on Valentine’s Day. Some women just don’t appreciate the idea of Valentine’s Day, and guess what? You are probably to be blame for it.

Some women believe that every other day should be just as special and guys shouldn’t just be nice to them only on Valentine’s Day.

The translation is simple. Women just don’t want you to be a jerk to them after Valentine’s day. Read more

Unconventional Romantic Ideas That Got Me More Sex!

Hey man, how’s it going? Good? I hope you are feeling that way because I’m going to share with you some romantic ideas that you don’t find in other romance book.

Most of all, you are going to have more sex if you apply the steps correctly.

Let me ask you a question. Have you ever dream of getting laid with the hot girl that you are friends with, but you never had a chance to date?

Today, you can change all that.

A couple of years ago, I was just like you, looking for new ways to improve my sex life and most importantly, how to get more sex.

But most of the information I found was about how to give a woman an orgasm through clitoral and G-spot stimulation.

Back then, there were not many websites that explain the process of how to make a woman become receptive to your sexual advances.

After all, what is the point of memorizing theories when you can’t even get a woman in bed?

To save you the trouble of going through the unnecessary trial and error that I went, I have decided to share with you my bag of tricks so you won’t have to go home alone again.

Now, back to reality. If you have been dating this chick for quite some time now and you haven’t got into her pants yet. Trust me; someone else will beat you to it, eventually.

First of all, you need to plan a good day for a hot and intimate love-making session before hand. Always be prepared so that you can take control of the situation and build her mood towards intimacy.

Planning the “Big Day”.

Find out if she is available at least one week in advance. By giving her an earlier notice, she will have enough time to re-arrange her schedule for you.

Next, tell her that you have planned up a really interesting date and how much fun both of you will have if she comes along.

Do not tell her exactly what you will be doing. Instead, keep her guessing by dropping hints on what she can expect from the date with you.  Women love guys who appear mysterious.

It just drives them crazy, not being able to figure you out.

Always be unpredictable, you can be sure that she won’t be able to take her mind off the date until the actual day itself.

Next, tell her that in order to be fair, she has to plan a program or do something for you on the day itself as well.

This adds on to her perceived value of what you have planned for her, it also gives her the chance to reciprocate. After all, it takes two hands to clap.

Now, what you need to do is to brain storm as many romantic ideas of what you can do on the date. This should not include going to the movies or any other regular date that you have been on.

Romance is not all about red wine and fanciful dinner. Romance starts in the mind, from the moment you interact with her and the attention you pay to her needs will affect how she will feel towards you.

Women find these gestures very romantic when you do it unexpectedly.

Do not be predictable just like the other 85% of the guys who only take her to the movies, women love new experiences and adventures.

Instead, surprise her on the date by doing something new and interesting together.

Here are some activities I recommend, that I personally have achieved great success with:

Bungee Jumping, Sky-Diving, Rock Climbing, Scuba-Diving, close interactions with animals in the zoo, etc…

Activities such as these usually bring out humorous circumstances where you can take advantage of by teasing and flirting with her.