The Secret Of Meeting Many Different Women At the Same Time

March 30, 2009 by Orrick Lee  
Filed under Dating, Featured

31-the-secret-of-meeting-many-women-at-the-same-timeJust like many guys who still haven’t got a clue about women, I was once caught up in this stage called… “Making the first move”.

I was shy, especially towards attractive looking women. Every time a woman looked past my direction, I’ll just look away, avoiding her eyes.

Initiating a conversation with a woman was never part of my equation. I was too petrified of facing rejection in public.

I believe at some point in time you might have been in a similar situation as me, getting tongue tied when the opportunity to talk to that special someone arrives.

But I’ve found a great way to overcome my fear to speak to women overtime. Not only that, I can also speak to many attractive women at the same time, without having to face direct rejection from them.

You might have probably guess it. Its Online Dating! I have personally went out with 3 other women I met on a local Social Bookmarking website called “WholivesNearYou”.

It literally shows you the distance how far you live away from the person you are talking to! One of the girls I met actually turned out to be living in the same block as I am!

So, enough of the fluff talk. I’m sure by now, you are fully aware of the potential of social bookmarking websites.

So here’s a list of things you need to do, if you decided to chat up that hot babe you met on the internet.

1. Dun seek approval.

2. Dun kiss up to women.

3. Tease her… Make fun of her playfully.

4. Dun mention sex.

5. Pick up something in their profile about them.

6. Do not sell  yourself as a potential lover.

7. Talk to her as if  you are striking up a conversation with a good friend.

8. You need to have a reason why you’re sending her a message.

9. Dun show that you are interested in her too early.

10. Keeping it short and simple.

11. Ice Breaker not to pose as a threat ( Being funny)

12. Keeping it casual.

13. No pressure.

Below is an example of what I’d say to start a conversation.

“After a rigorously brief overview of your profile picture (since your profile is private).

I wanted to let you know that I have already married and divorced you in my mind.

Thanks for all the wonderful imaginary memories…

You will always have a special place in my heart.

Your ex-hubby,
Orrick

PS. I’m going to need half your money according to our prenup =)”

Here’s a little secret, if you’re really new at this. And you have a dysfuctional sense of humor that nobody can understand, all you need to do is rip off these conversation starters in forums where people exchanged ideas on how to meet women online.

It’s powerful stuff! Once you start getting the hang of it, you’ll be able to start coming up with things on your own.

Try tweaking your conversation starters according to these tips. I guarantee you’ll have  an increase in responses from women!

Cheers!.