The “Finishing Move” Of Every Japanese Male Porn-star

April 7, 2009 by Orrick Lee  
Filed under Featured, Orgasm

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You won’t believe what happened yesterday. My friend who came to visit me from Japan, asked if I wanted to watch him have sex with his wife!

And his wife is actually ok with it!

You must be thinking that their out of their minds.

But I guess you wouldn’t be too surprised if you knew both Taka ( my friend) and his wife, were former Japanese porn stars in the early 90s.

It must be pretty normal for them to have people watch them have sex all the time.

So here’s how it all began. 

I read an article about the Japanese Porn industry, about a year ago. It reported that japanese porn actors had to go through a series of training and had to pass a “sex test” before they are cast in a film.

The male porn-actors had to know how to literally make their female co-stars reach orgasm on the scene itself!

That’s what I call quality porn… I supposed that’s the reason why Japanese woman have this reputation of being “fast-cummers”.

Just in case you didn’t know, most western female pornstars fake their orgasms all the time. 

Only a small percentage of them, actually experience true orgasms, if the guy’s good enough.

Anyway… The article I was reading, was also looking for sex coaches to train Japanese male porn actors.

The money’s really good and I knew I would do great at the job

The only problem was… I can’t speak Japanese for nuts. And if you can’t speak a word of their first language, you probably won’t even qualify for a Janitor.

But I had another agenda… I wanted to meet a sex-coach from Japan. I wanted to learn something. 

So after surfing on the net for awhile… I found Taka’s profile on Mixi – a Japanese social Network website. Fortunately he speaks a little English, so communication wasn’t a big problem. 

And we have been sharing Sex techniques over the internet ever since.

I later found out that he was a porn star before he became a sex coach

I met Taka and his wife for the first time, yesterday. Taka looked exactly the way he was in his pictures.

You wouldn’t be able to guess his profession if you were to judge him from the first impression.

I greeted his wife with a nod, I can’t help but notice how attractive Taka’s wife was. 

She held her hair in a bun, leaving her fringes down the sides of her face. 

She’s had really fair skin like most japanese women, and she was really volumptuous. Everywhere she went, eyes were all on her.

I didn’t want to be rude, so I tried to avoid looking at her.

I showed them around town, took them up to the famous Singapore flyer. The Singapore flyer is a big ass ferris wheel on the coast of the marina, supposedly bigger than he London eye.

Not to sure if it was ever noted in the Guiness Book of records.

Taka’s wife made a remark about how Porn producers in Japan would scout for locations like this to film a sex scene. 

I raised an eyebrow. I thought it was an awesome idea… Can’t really imagine watching a couple having sex by the window of one of the cabins.

With all the attention from the people below, it would have been the biggest tourist attraction.

But then again, they’ll probably all get arrested even before they have their clothes off. Singapore has really strict laws.

We headed down to one of the local seafood restaurants for dinner. We discussed a lot about SEX… Not in a superficial way, but the difference between Western and Asian Cultures.

Taka was intrigue with my knowledge about female orgasms.

He said that many of the female orgasm techniques I described from the Chinese Sex Manual, were rather similar to what Japanese male pornstars were trained to do.

But they were also some subtle differences.

The more I shared, the more excited they became… Not sexually.

Then he said suddenly, “Why don’t we all go to back to the hotel room. Maybe you can guide us how to do it the chinese way”?

He repeated his question again, probably because I stared at him blankly that he thought I didn’ hear what he said.

No words can described how I was feeling at that moment.. It was really weird. I actually felt touched.

Here I was several years ago, a desperate loser who once got dumped by girls because of my poor sex skills. But Now, a Sex coach who trains Japanese Porn actors, wanted me to to guide him!

I have indeed come a long way from who I was before, I thought.

To cut the “already long story short”, I shared with him My “2 step Method” which you can find in my previous posts. And in return, he showed me the Finishing Move of every japanese Male Porn Star.

“The finishing Move” is a classic Man on top, woman below position.

1. His wife was lying on the bed and he entered her from the front. His back kept straight, such that both of them formed an “L” shape.

2. His knees were on the bed, with his butt resting on the back of the heels… The balls of the feet on the bed, supporting his weight.

3. Next, he lifted her slightly so that her hamstrings were on his thighs.

4. He started thrusting her in a small but rapid motion. He was using his knees to generate the momentum instead of his hips… It’s like he’s rocking back  and forth.

5. Taka, said that the secret is not to have more than one quarter of your penis out from her vagina when you thrust.

6. He used both hands to grab her hips and pulled her against his pelvis each thrust he makes.

Within a few minutes, his wife started grabbing on the sheets and she started gasping for breaths. She moaned even louder… I wouldn’t be surprised if anybody could here us from outside.

Her body was literally shaking… It was like she was having a fit! It was really ecstatic. I would be lying if I told you that I wasn’t the least turned on by her. It was like watching PORN … Live!

Then, it was Taka’s turn to reach orgasm. Then both of them held each other in a brief embrace.

All three of us looked at each other and smiled… We all got what we wanted.

 

 

 

A Woman’s Perspective On Intensifying Female Orgasms

March 26, 2009 by Orrick Lee  
Filed under Featured, Orgasm

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If your woman has never been able to achieve that mind-blowing orgasms that everybody’s talking about. This could be the reason why. You should let your girlfriend or wife see this!

Intensified Orgasms – What Women Discuss With Their Friends That You Don’t Know About

March 19, 2009 by Orrick Lee  
Filed under Featured, Orgasm

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Do you know that women actually discuss their sex life in detail, among their girlfriends?

Some of the things they discussed are so out of this world that we wonder why they never tell us about it.

In this video, you’ll get  inside their inner circle and listen on their secrets of  experiencing intense female orgasms!

The One Thing That Every Guy Gets It Wrong During Intercourse

March 11, 2009 by Orrick Lee  
Filed under Featured, Orgasm

21-the-one-thing-that-every-guy-gets-it-wrong-during-intercourseLast weekend, I met up with an old  high school friend that I’ve not seen in years. We had the usual catch up  dinner sort of thing at one of the local Thai-themed restaurants, called Sakura. The food is really good, especially the Oyster Ommelette.

Just in case you come here (Singapore) on a holiday, you might wanna go to the Far East Plaza Shopping Centre to check that out.

But I digress.

She asked me what I did for a living and I told her I write.

She was astonished.  After all, back in high school, I used to let her write all my essays for me. I suck  pretty much in almost every subject except chemistry. Heck, I even suck at art!

You must be thinking what a nerd I am.

Well, you are right. I was pretty much a nerd.  But, only ON THE INSIDE.

Anyway, back to the story. I found out that she had quite a spontaneous lifestyle. She did whatever that interests her and she never allowed herself to be tied up by one man. Over the past few years, she had done a lot of travelling, meeting new people.

She was totally different from the shy and reserved girl in high school. Come to think of it now, she must have gotten sick of  people taking her for granted all the time… I actually felt guilty.

“So what do you write about?” she asked.

“I’m writing about adult education”. I said, trying to divert the conversation.

Well, I can be pretty conservative in what I do, especially towards friends and relatives. To most of them, it always seems like a big deal whenever sex is involved.

The older generation would look at sex as if it was never part of their reality. To them, sex is obscene and shameful and should only be practised behind closed doors.

The younger generation however, tend to put sex on a pedestal. There was once, where a few of my friends were hoping to get lucky with women at a club.  They started going around telling women that there’s a  Sex Instructor amongst them, thinking it would attract their attention.

I think we both know, it’s not going to happen that way.

Anyway, she was really persistent. So I finally gave in.

I’m writing a book about giving women better orgasms“. I admitted.

The rest of the night, is history… No, we didn’t have sex. But she gave me some really insightful information from a female perspective, which I want to share with you.

Her: I prefer to have a lot of interaction with my partner during sex.

Me: What do you mean by interaction?

Her: Well, I love to tease him and be teased in return. I like being tickled and it really turns me on to watch him remove my clothing slowly, piece by piece.

It can get really exciting, because I won’t know what he’ll be up to next.

Me: Nice… So what is the thing that most guys got it wrong during sex?

Her: Well, not kissing and cuddling enough. My last boyfriend literally head south everytime we begin. He doesn’t even go down on me. I actually felt like a whore doing it with him. He’ll just finish his deed and fall asleep right after.

Me: Yeah, foreplay is really important. I think women usually reach orgasms much faster if the foreplay was much longer.

Her: Exactly! It alsot makes me feel closer to my partner and I would want to do it with him, even more.

Me: So, have you faked orgasms when you were with your previous boyfriend?

Her: Yeah, I have to. I just want to get it done and over with quickly.

Me: Is it because he’s trying too hard to make you come that it hurts after awhile?

Her: Not really, I just find it really boring and a drag to do it with him.

Me: I know it sucks. You are definitely not the only women who have to put up with men like that.

Her: Yeah, and it’s so frustrating.

Me: A lot of women don’t come during vaginal penetration. What’s your take on that?

Her: It really depends. But I think I know where the problem is. Most guys tend to thrust in and out. Sometimes I can’t even feel him inside me if he goes too fast. But instead if he rocks up and down, I can come really quickly even if he leaves his penis inside me throughout.

Well, this conversation is as far as it goes. But, it pretty much sums up everything you need to do in bed, with your partner.

We bid our goodbyes and I told her I may need her to help me co-write the upcoming book as well.

By now you should know better than your peers that foreplay is really important to a woman.

Remember, when you’re already down south, do not make the mistake of  thrusting in and out like a porntstar. Keep your body close and rock her, as if you are grinding her.

I guess I shall stop here in case you get info-constipated. Try it out with your partner, and see the results for yourself!

P.S. I’m not sure if your woman ever comes clean with how she feels about having sex with you. But just to be safe,  have a look at this to have a better idea of what’s on her mind.

Female Orgasms And The Law Of Attraction

March 2, 2009 by Orrick Lee  
Filed under Featured, Orgasm

16-female-orgasms-and-the-law-of-attraction-01-03-09Just two weeks ago, I attended a 3-days life-changing workshop about the “Law Of Attraction” conducted by Jerry Hicks and his wife.

They explained how the Law Of Attraction should be applied in order to achieve the best success of getting anything that you desire.

After walking out the doors of the workshop, I was suddenly hit by a really crazy idea.

I was wondering  how I could use the law of attraction during sex!

I have discovered that many women today, are so used to not having an orgasm that the female orgasm is believed only to be a well-fabricated fable to give hope to sexually frustrated women.

This also affect some men who are already used to their poor sex life, are not able to tell the difference between when was the last time they had the best sex in their lives.

Truth is, mastering the techniques from the female orgasm Chinese” Sex Manuscript” is only half the battle won (not that I have all of it translated yet)!

All the techniques will not work if you only focus on the end result instead of  truly enjoying it.

So, what has female orgasms got to do with the secret law of attraction? Everything!

Have you ever had that obvious feeling that you know something is going to happen and it did, just like how you expect it?

It can be something as simple as your complete reliance on your alarm clock, to wake you up the next morning. Especially when you set it to the time accordingly, the night before.

Deep inside you, you just know that your alarm clock would ring no matter what! In fact, you are already so used to it as it happens all the time!

Here’s the kicker, what if you could give female orgasms every time you have sex with a woman, as if  its part of the norm, wouldn’t it be great?

The law of attraction works in such a way that if you are able to align the emotion of the “obvious feeling” of  “expecting the things to happen” to your heart’s desire, it will lead you to get what you wish for!

This rule applies the same if you want to help any women achieve the elusive female orgasm!

Before you proceed into the bedroom with your partner,  close your eyes and relax for a moment. Visualize your partner climaxing from the technique you learned in the Sex Manuscript.

Tell yourself that you are already equipped with the sex techniques that work best for your girlfriend and she will definitely experience body shaking orgasms from it.

Understand that things happen when you  take a desired action at some point in time. In this case, you have chose to learn the tips from the Chinese “Sex Manuscript“.

To summarise it:

1. Know what your intentions are when you have sex if a woman ( eg: giving her the experience of the female orgasm etc…).

2. Take the desired action (If you haven’t, do it now).

3. Visualize yourself succeeding in the deed.

It’s just that simple! Go have fun with it tonight! Right now, it is half past two in the morning in Singapore. I hope you enjoyed what I shared with you tonight, I’m gonna hit the sack!

I’ll talk to you soon, friend.

P.S. If you still have problem putting it to action… This may be a cure for you.

Giving Woman Orgasms Is Much Easier Than You Think

February 25, 2009 by Orrick Lee  
Filed under Featured, Orgasm

12-giving-woman-orgasms-is-much-easier-than-you-think-25-02-09I have a really silly question to ask. Have you ever watched Porn? You might be thinking, “duh”… Well, the answer is pretty obvious since you’ve already found your way to my blog.

But that’s not the point.

The point is, most guys F**K as if they are like porn stars! And it’s NOT a Good thing!

Here’s the story for most guys. “What should I do to make her climax? I just have to watch this porn video and do what the guy is doing, on my woman”.

So, does that mean if anybody wanted to learn how to fly without wings, all he need to do is just attach a red cape on his back with the letter “S” printed on it?

Now you get the picture don’t you? Most guys are actually kids in disguise. Read more

The No Brainer Way To A Woman’s Orgasm.

February 4, 2009 by Orrick Lee  
Filed under Orgasm

02-the-no-brainer-way-to-a-womans-orgasm-04-02-09 Congrats! Now that you have got her into your bed. You must be thinking that you’re only a step away from shagging her.

That was exactly how I felt during the first time when I brought a girl back to my place.

But it was also the first time, I screwed up. As bad as it sounds, it actually led me to discover a ridiculously no-brainer way that help me give women unforgettable orgasms every time we have sex.

Here’s what happen. Read more