A Cherished Woman Is A Horny Woman

Someone once told me, “A cherished woman is a horny woman”.

Back then, I had no idea what he was talking about. But after years of screwing up, I realized that it actually makes alot of sense!

A cherished woman, is indeed a horny woman!

In my previous post, I talked about how differently men and women view sex.

For men, we  feel a woman’s love through sex.  But on the contrary, Women need to feel loved, then they’ll want to have sex.

It’s the conflict between these two different mentality that many couples face the frustration of not being understood by their partners.

This lack of understanding between man and woman can eventually lead to a “dull” sex life or even no sex at all; in the long run!

Let me ask this.

Have your loved one, accused you for not loving her enough?

Well, I’m sure you know what I mean.

You probably  have also noticed that she doesn’t seem as enthusiastic about having sex with you as before.

In fact, she’ll sometimes make excuses like… I’m not in the mood right now, I’m having a headache, not right now or I’ve got work tomorrow… etc. Basically things that mean, “I don’t want to have sex with you”.

When it seems that you’ve provided her with everything she needs, she’s still complaining that you are not doing enough.

And even worst, she thinks you’re only with her for the sex!

You see,  most guys only give what we think  a woman needs. But in reality, we’re not giving her exactly what she wants – That’s what she’s really frustrated about.

So what is it she wants?

Look buddy, you already got the hints.

“Women need to feel loved, then they’ll want to have sex with you”  and “a cherished woman is a horny woman“.

All you have to do, is to show your love to her!

Shower her with affection.

Little gestures such as offering her a sincere compliment or giving her a kiss when she least expects it, makes her feel cherished and appreciated.

When making love to each other, all she wants is for you to hug her from the back and cuddle her after she helps you to reach an orgasm.

Every time you fall asleep right after you get off, it’s only going to make her feel used - Like a Sex toy.

When I say sex toy, I mean “chucking” her aside right after you accomplished what you’ve done – Blowing your load, that is!

Sometimes, its not all about giving your woman orgasms. That’s only part of the equation.

If you want to continue to have more sex with your loved one,  be more affectionate to her. It’s not the big things.

But the little things  that you do, shows her how important she is to you.

If you can do that, and successfully give her orgasms with the techniques you learned from the Sex Manual. I can assure you, that you’ll be the only man she’ll think about.

Sexual Tension – I Was Forced Into Having Sex

I’ve not told anyone about this yet, except for my good friend, “The Legend”; who was with me last night.

I felt violated, I was forced into having sex with a girl I had no interest in!  It felt  as if I was getting  rape!

I recieved a call late last night, around half past eleven when I was already sleeping.

 It was “The Legend”. He said something about a new club in town and he wanted us to check out the scene together.

I declined his invitation. I haven’t slept a wink for more than 24hrs. I had been slogging off a project for a local magazine the previous night.  I was dead beat. 

But he wouldn’t let me off the hook. He always had a way to make me say yes to him.. So I put on my clothes and drove off to meet him.

Within half an hour, I was already waiting outside theclub for him. The name of the club is called Lunar. “The Legend” arrived shortly and we proceeded to the club.

The music was banging… But I couldn’t care less of my suroundings. I just wanted to sit down and rest. The live band was pretty good though, with all its latest Canto Pop singles.

Then came the interval… My jaw dropped even though I was almost half asleep.

Three girls in skimpy glittery clothing started walking towards us. They went on top of our table and started dancing wildly!  Then I realised thatwe were actually sitting in the VIP area.

I looked over to “The Legend” and he flashed a sly smile. 

“How’d you like it?” He said. “I know you’ve been working ur ass off on that project, it’s time to let loose now”.

I didn’t had the mood to party. I was still half awoken state. The girls sat between us. “The Legend” had his arms around two of them.

One thing for sure, the girls aren’t pole dancers for nothing. They were… HOT!

The one that snuggled up beside me, she had long black hair with a blond highlighting on a portion of  her fringe… She kinda reminded me of  ”Rogue” in the Xmen movies. But she had the body of “Jean”, the red haired girl who has the ability to control shit loads of stuffs with her mind; in the same movie.  

She was slim and tall… But I wish she had a little more flesh on her. Runway models are just not my type. I prefer my woman, volumptuous.

She was trying hard to chat up with me. But, I guess it was part of her job.

My mind was in a blank.  Every question she asked me, I randomly replied with a slapstick comment that just came out from the top of my head. 

Surprisingly, she found me amusing and I hadn’t even tried getting fresh with her.

At the corner of my eye, I spotted “The Legend” already making out with the other two girls. One of his hand was under the skirt of one of the girls.

“You’re different”, she finally said.

“No, I’m not gay”, I replied in a serious tone. 

“I don’t mean that”, she laughed. “Every guy I met would have his hands all over me by now, but you’re a gentleman“.

“Thank you”, I smiled and I looked away.

For the rest of the night, she was trying to get my attention. But I wasn’t feeling  up to it. Besides, I’m not the kind of guy who would fuck every time an opportunity presents itself. I have my standards.

When it was time to leave, “The Legend” asked he could have a lift from me back to his place.

He rode a motorcycle. But, he couldn’t give a lift to all  three persons at the same time. The two girls were going back to his place. 

So out of politeness, I turned to the tall girl and asked where I could drop her off. She said she was following them, because she was worried about her friends.

You won’t be able to imagine how sleepy I was the other night. I dozed off a couple of times when I was driving. She actually thought it was cute – nutcase!

You must be wondering why i haven’t introduced her. I’m not going to now, because I’ve completely forgotten her name. I guess it’s better this way, she wasn’t somebody I want to remember anyway.

I thought she was a nightmare and a wetdream fused into one.

But she was helpful. She made sure  I stayed awake throughout the journey.

When we arrived at “The Legend’s” apartment, the first thing he did was to turn on the stereo. He and the girls started dancing to Pussycat Doll’s buttons.

I told him that I’ll be taking a nap at his place and I slumped over his couch. He took the party to the next room.

Finally, I felt a sense of relief. Suddenly, I felt somebody rubbing on my thighs. It was that freakin gal!

She was doing a strip lap dance on me! I pushed her away, telling her that I just wanted to sleep. But she thought I was playing hard to get!

In a few moments, she had my ‘dong’ in her mouth. She was literally swallowing me whole.

I was struggling between pleasure and sense of violation.

Never in my whole life have I had sex without my own free will.

I have had mixed feelings about this…

You must be thinking how ridiculous I am to whine at something like that happened to me. But that’s not the point. The reason why I’m sharing this story with you because there’s pure gold waiting to be uncovered!

Think about this. Here’s a decent looking dancer where rich guys would shower with cash, in order to get her attention (decent looking is actually an understatement. But, each to his own I guess).

But here am I, doing nothing and she’s on her knees working on me.

The “Gold” I’m talking about is basically not to do anything and you can still get laid! 

Here’s why. 

Hot women are used to guys paying for their attention. When they meet somebody who doesn’t do the same thing like 90% of the guys out there. She’ll start to have self-doubts, followed by intrigue.

When she tried coming on to me, it was probably a test to see if I would give in to my lust like everybody else. But she is caught off her guard when I “pushed her off”.

In fact, the more I pushed her away… The more she comes back to me.

Here’s the thing, I didn’t tell her I dislike her. But I didn’t show any interest either. I just did nothing!

She must be wondering why I keep pushing her away when I didn’t say I dislike her. In fact, I still offered her a ride home!

This is what I call, Sexual Tension. The building up of curiosity and attraction at the same time. I know it sounds crazy. But it works best on attractive looking women who are used to getting pampered.

So the next time you see a hot looking woman you can’t wait to f**k, you’ll know what to do. Good Luck!

Alright, I gotta get back to work now. Hope you enjoyed what I shared. Feel free to post any feedback or questions. I’ll try to get back to you as soon as I can.

Valentine’s Day Tips – The 10 things You Should Do To Proceed From The Date To Your Bedroom.

Have you ever planned a whole day of exciting activities on Valentine’s Day but things just happen to screw up in between and then you don’t make it past the bedroom with her?

Well, it happened to me all the time.  From my experience of  “celebrating” Valentine’s Day with different women, I realised that being overly nice to them can actually back-fire on you.

If  you haven’t yet noticed, there is actually quite a controversy going on within their views on Valentine’s Day. Some women just don’t appreciate the idea of Valentine’s Day, and guess what? You are probably to be blame for it.

Some women believe that every other day should be just as special and guys shouldn’t just be nice to them only on Valentine’s Day.

The translation is simple. Women just don’t want you to be a jerk to them after Valentine’s day. Read more