The “Finishing Move” Of Every Japanese Male Porn-star

You won’t believe what happened yesterday. My friend who came to visit me from Japan, asked if I wanted to watch him have sex with his wife!

And his wife is actually ok with it!

You must be thinking that their out of their minds.

But I guess you wouldn’t be too surprised if you knew both Taka ( my friend) and his wife, were former Japanese porn stars in the early 90s.

It must be pretty normal for them to have people watch them have sex all the time.

So here’s how it all began. 

I read an article about the Japanese Porn industry, about a year ago. It reported that japanese porn actors had to go through a series of training and had to pass a “sex test” before they are cast in a film.

The male porn-actors had to know how to literally make their female co-stars reach orgasm on the scene itself!

That’s what I call quality porn… I supposed that’s the reason why Japanese woman have this reputation of being “fast-cummers”.

Just in case you didn’t know, most western female pornstars fake their orgasms all the time. 

Only a small percentage of them, actually experience true orgasms, if the guy’s good enough.

Anyway… The article I was reading, was also looking for sex coaches to train Japanese male porn actors.

The money’s really good and I knew I would do great at the job. 

The only problem was… I can’t speak Japanese for nuts. And if you can’t speak a word of their first language, you probably won’t even qualify for a Janitor.

But I had another agenda… I wanted to meet a sex-coach from Japan. I wanted to learn something. 

So after surfing on the net for awhile… I found Taka’s profile on Mixi – a Japanese social Network website. Fortunately he speaks a little English, so communication wasn’t a big problem. 

And we have been sharing Sex techniques over the internet ever since.

I later found out that he was a porn star before he became a sex coach. 

I met Taka and his wife for the first time, yesterday. Taka looked exactly the way he was in his pictures.

You wouldn’t be able to guess his profession if you were to judge him from the first impression.

I greeted his wife with a nod, I can’t help but notice how attractive Taka’s wife was. 

She held her hair in a bun, leaving her fringes down the sides of her face. 

She’s had really fair skin like most japanese women, and she was really volumptuous. Everywhere she went, eyes were all on her.

I didn’t want to be rude, so I tried to avoid looking at her.

I showed them around town, took them up to the famous Singapore flyer. The Singapore flyer is a big ass ferris wheel on the coast of the marina, supposedly bigger than he London eye.

Not to sure if it was ever noted in the Guiness Book of records.

Taka’s wife made a remark about how Porn producers in Japan would scout for locations like this to film a sex scene. 

I raised an eyebrow. I thought it was an awesome idea… Can’t really imagine watching a couple having sex by the window of one of the cabins.

With all the attention from the people below, it would have been the biggest tourist attraction.

But then again, they’ll probably all get arrested even before they have their clothes off. Singapore has really strict laws.

We headed down to one of the local seafood restaurants for dinner. We discussed a lot about SEX… Not in a superficial way, but the difference between Western and Asian Cultures.

Taka was intrigue with my knowledge about female orgasms.

He said that many of the female orgasm techniques I described from the Chinese Sex Manual, were rather similar to what Japanese male pornstars were trained to do.

But they were also some subtle differences.

The more I shared, the more excited they became… Not sexually.

Then he said suddenly, “Why don’t we all go to back to the hotel room. Maybe you can guide us how to do it the chinese way”?

He repeated his question again, probably because I stared at him blankly that he thought I didn’ hear what he said.

No words can described how I was feeling at that moment.. It was really weird. I actually felt touched.

Here I was several years ago, a desperate loser who once got dumped by girls because of my poor sex skills. But Now, a Sex coach who trains Japanese Porn actors, wanted me to to guide him!

I have indeed come a long way from who I was before, I thought.

To cut the “already long story short”, I shared with him My “2 step Method” which you can find in my previous posts. And in return, he showed me the Finishing Move of every japanese Male Porn Star.

“The finishing Move” is a classic Man on top, woman below position.

1. His wife was lying on the bed and he entered her from the front. His back kept straight, such that both of them formed an “L” shape.

2. His knees were on the bed, with his butt resting on the back of the heels… The balls of the feet on the bed, supporting his weight.

3. Next, he lifted her slightly so that her hamstrings were on his thighs.

4. He started thrusting her in a small but rapid motion. He was using his knees to generate the momentum instead of his hips… It’s like he’s rocking back  and forth.

5. Taka, said that the secret is not to have more than one quarter of your penis out from her vagina when you thrust.

6. He used both hands to grab her hips and pulled her against his pelvis each thrust he makes.

Within a few minutes, his wife started grabbing on the sheets and she started gasping for breaths. She moaned even louder… I wouldn’t be surprised if anybody could here us from outside.

Her body was literally shaking… It was like she was having a fit! It was really ecstatic. I would be lying if I told you that I wasn’t the least turned on by her. It was like watching PORN … Live!

Then, it was Taka’s turn to reach orgasm. Then both of them held each other in a brief embrace.

All three of us looked at each other and smiled… We all got what we wanted.

 

 

 

The 10 Things That Women Tell Their Friends They Hate About You, In Bed

Have you ever heard what a conversation amongst women is like? Truth is, women do not only discussed topics such as the latest model of high-heels on sale or about their kids. Women do discuss about sex and it is apparently one of their favorite topics. Do not be surprise if they ever complain about your sexual performance to their friends.

So how do you prevent yourself from becoming the joke among your woman’s girlfriends? Simple, make sure you are damn good in bed.

Below are 10 common sex mistakes that many men commit when trying to get into a sex position.

Mistake 1: Pumping hard like a Jack Hammer.

The worst place any men can learn how to be good in bed is to learn from porn videos. Many of the sex techniques in these videos are designed only for visual stimuli. Pumping her hard and fast through out will only cause her to become sore more quickly.

Sex is not just a one sided affair. Instead of acting out a scene of a porn movie, pay more attention to her body language and watch out for things that she enjoys you to do.

Mistake 2: Staying in the same sex position throughout the session.

Think about it, do you enjoy it when your woman is only licking the tip of your penis for the next 10 minutes, without actually going down on you all the way? I’m sure it sucks big time.

It is also the same for women if you continue hump away in the same sex position for the next 20 minutes. Keeping your routine stagnant will eventually bore her and she may start to lose interest in sex, with you.

Instead, learn to transit from one sexual position to another without breaking the momentum.

Mistake 3: Attempting to be fanciful in bed.

Although it’s better to have variations in your sex techniques, do not over do it for the sake of impressing her.

Over complicating things can disrupt the atmosphere for good sex. Just stick to positions that she can get into easily and focus on stimulating her.

Mistake 4: “Dead Fish” position?

Don’t be mistaken, this is not a new sex position. In fact, this is a fairly common position where a woman gets on top of you.

The only difference, is that you are just lying there like a “dead fish” and not doing anything. Hence the name, “Dead Fish” position.

While you may be relieve that now it is your turn to lie on your back and rest, the deed is not yet over.

While you lie on your back, caress and fondle her bum as you suck on her nipples. This will further arouse her and it’s one of the proven methods that women get their orgasms from.

Mistake 5: Inferior Complexity in Bed.

It is okay to let her take control once in awhile to understand where she likes to be touch and stimulated.

Avoid asking her too much about how she feels in bed while you are at it, inside of her. This is a sure way turn her off as it shows the weakness of your uncertainty.

If you portray yourself as somebody who lacks confidence, she’ll pick up these signs and eventually she may even pass having sex with you. Women want a real man in bed not a weakling.

Mistake 6: Unkept Bush

Always have the habit of “mowing the lawn” before you engage oral sex with your partner. Most women actually prefer their men to trim their pubic area.

Having wisp of hair caught on her tongue would be a great way to say goodbye to your last oral sex you will ever get from her.

Mistake 7: Smelling like a dead squid

One of the biggest turn off for women in bed, is to smell as if you have not showered for days. Especially if you want her to go down on you, do wash yourself clean and apply some male pheromone infused perfume on your pubic area to entice her.

Mistake 8: Taking Things for granted

You should never be complacent and get used to your already stale sex routine. Doesn’t mean everytime she is receptive of your sexual advances or she expresses herself in a satisfying manner, means she is enjoying what you are doing.

Do not abuse your privilege of only satisfying yourself when you are in bed with her. Eventually she will feel that making love with you is only a one-sided affair and she may not be as enthusiastic about having sex with you in the future.

Mistake 9: Not being creative enough

Don’t be afraid of introducing foreign items into your love-making routine. You will be surprise to see how it will excite your woman when she is unable to expect what is to come after wards.

Introduce food such as whip cream, chocolate sauce or any of her favorite candy. Women get especially turn on if she see’s you licking off her favorite “sinful pleasure” off her body.

Mistake 10: Failing to communicate

This is by far the most important factor to be taken into consideration, if couples want to enjoy great sex with their partners. Women has more than one erogenous spot that will trigger orgasms.

However, not all women like stimulation in the same spot. What may have worked on your previous partner maybe result in a totally different reaction from your current partner. Take time to learn the hot spots of your partner. If necessary, ask her to guide your hand along her favorite positions.

P.S Now that you know the mistakes that majority of the men are making. It is important not to commit these errors if you want to stand out from the crowd. Go correct these mistakes and you can be sure that this time, your girlfriend will brag to her friends about your performance in bed instead!

A Woman’s Perspective On Intensifying Female Orgasms

If your woman has never been able to achieve that mind-blowing orgasms that everybody’s talking about. This could be the reason why. You should let your girlfriend or wife see this!

Intensified Orgasms – What Women Discuss With Their Friends That You Don’t Know About

Do you know that women actually discuss their sex life in detail, among their girlfriends?

Some of the things they discussed are so out of this world that we wonder why they never tell us about it.

In this video, you’ll get  inside their inner circle and listen on their secrets of  experiencing intense female orgasms!

The One Thing That Every Guy Gets It Wrong During Intercourse

Last weekend, I met up with an old  high school friend that I’ve not seen in years. We had the usual catch up  dinner sort of thing at one of the local Thai-themed restaurants, called Sakura. The food is really good, especially the Oyster Ommelette.

Just in case you come here (Singapore) on a holiday, you might wanna go to the Far East Plaza Shopping Centre to check that out.

But I digress.

She asked me what I did for a living and I told her I write.

She was astonished.  After all, back in high school, I used to let her write all my essays for me. I suck  pretty much in almost every subject except chemistry. Heck, I even suck at art!

You must be thinking what a nerd I am.

Well, you are right. I was pretty much a nerd.  But, only ON THE INSIDE.

Anyway, back to the story. I found out that she had quite a spontaneous lifestyle. She did whatever that interests her and she never allowed herself to be tied up by one man. Over the past few years, she had done a lot of travelling, meeting new people.

She was totally different from the shy and reserved girl in high school. Come to think of it now, she must have gotten sick of  people taking her for granted all the time… I actually felt guilty.

“So what do you write about?” she asked.

“I’m writing about adult education”. I said, trying to divert the conversation.

Well, I can be pretty conservative in what I do, especially towards friends and relatives. To most of them, it always seems like a big deal whenever sex is involved.

The older generation would look at sex as if it was never part of their reality. To them, sex is obscene and shameful and should only be practised behind closed doors.

The younger generation however, tend to put sex on a pedestal. There was once, where a few of my friends were hoping to get lucky with women at a club.  They started going around telling women that there’s a  Sex Instructor amongst them, thinking it would attract their attention.

I think we both know, it’s not going to happen that way.

Anyway, she was really persistent. So I finally gave in.

“I’m writing a book about giving women better orgasms“. I admitted.

The rest of the night, is history… No, we didn’t have sex. But she gave me some really insightful information from a female perspective, which I want to share with you.

Her: I prefer to have a lot of interaction with my partner during sex.

Me: What do you mean by interaction?

Her: Well, I love to tease him and be teased in return. I like being tickled and it really turns me on to watch him remove my clothing slowly, piece by piece.

It can get really exciting, because I won’t know what he’ll be up to next.

Me: Nice… So what is the thing that most guys got it wrong during sex?

Her: Well, not kissing and cuddling enough. My last boyfriend literally head south everytime we begin. He doesn’t even go down on me. I actually felt like a whore doing it with him. He’ll just finish his deed and fall asleep right after.

Me: Yeah, foreplay is really important. I think women usually reach orgasms much faster if the foreplay was much longer.

Her: Exactly! It alsot makes me feel closer to my partner and I would want to do it with him, even more.

Me: So, have you faked orgasms when you were with your previous boyfriend?

Her: Yeah, I have to. I just want to get it done and over with quickly.

Me: Is it because he’s trying too hard to make you come that it hurts after awhile?

Her: Not really, I just find it really boring and a drag to do it with him.

Me: I know it sucks. You are definitely not the only women who have to put up with men like that.

Her: Yeah, and it’s so frustrating.

Me: A lot of women don’t come during vaginal penetration. What’s your take on that?

Her: It really depends. But I think I know where the problem is. Most guys tend to thrust in and out. Sometimes I can’t even feel him inside me if he goes too fast. But instead if he rocks up and down, I can come really quickly even if he leaves his penis inside me throughout.

Well, this conversation is as far as it goes. But, it pretty much sums up everything you need to do in bed, with your partner.

We bid our goodbyes and I told her I may need her to help me co-write the upcoming book as well.

By now you should know better than your peers that foreplay is really important to a woman.

Remember, when you’re already down south, do not make the mistake of  thrusting in and out like a porntstar. Keep your body close and rock her, as if you are grinding her.

I guess I shall stop here in case you get info-constipated. Try it out with your partner, and see the results for yourself!

P.S. I’m not sure if your woman ever comes clean with how she feels about having sex with you. But just to be safe,  have a look at this to have a better idea of what’s on her mind.

Female Orgasms And The Law Of Attraction

Just two weeks ago, I attended a 3-days life-changing workshop about the “Law Of Attraction” conducted by Jerry Hicks and his wife.

They explained how the Law Of Attraction should be applied in order to achieve the best success of getting anything that you desire.

After walking out the doors of the workshop, I was suddenly hit by a really crazy idea.

I was wondering  how I could use the law of attraction during sex!

I have discovered that many women today, are so used to not having an orgasm that the female orgasm is believed only to be a well-fabricated fable to give hope to sexually frustrated women.

This also affect some men who are already used to their poor sex life, are not able to tell the difference between when was the last time they had the best sex in their lives.

Truth is, mastering the techniques from the female orgasm Chinese” Sex Manuscript” is only half the battle won (not that I have all of it translated yet)!

All the techniques will not work if you only focus on the end result instead of  truly enjoying it.

So, what has female orgasms got to do with the secret law of attraction? Everything!

Have you ever had that obvious feeling that you know something is going to happen and it did, just like how you expect it?

It can be something as simple as your complete reliance on your alarm clock, to wake you up the next morning. Especially when you set it to the time accordingly, the night before.

Deep inside you, you just know that your alarm clock would ring no matter what! In fact, you are already so used to it as it happens all the time!

Here’s the kicker, what if you could give female orgasms every time you have sex with a woman, as if  its part of the norm, wouldn’t it be great?

The law of attraction works in such a way that if you are able to align the emotion of the “obvious feeling” of  “expecting the things to happen” to your heart’s desire, it will lead you to get what you wish for!

This rule applies the same if you want to help any women achieve the elusive female orgasm!

Before you proceed into the bedroom with your partner,  close your eyes and relax for a moment. Visualize your partner climaxing from the technique you learned in the Sex Manuscript.

Tell yourself that you are already equipped with the sex techniques that work best for your girlfriend and she will definitely experience body shaking orgasms from it.

Understand that things happen when you  take a desired action at some point in time. In this case, you have chose to learn the tips from the Chinese “Sex Manuscript“.

To summarise it:

1. Know what your intentions are when you have sex if a woman ( eg: giving her the experience of the female orgasm etc…).

2. Take the desired action (If you haven’t, do it now).

3. Visualize yourself succeeding in the deed.

It’s just that simple! Go have fun with it tonight! Right now, it is half past two in the morning in Singapore. I hope you enjoyed what I shared with you tonight, I’m gonna hit the sack!

I’ll talk to you soon, friend.

P.S. If you still have problem putting it to action… This may be a cure for you.

The No Brainer Way To A Woman’s Orgasm.

Congrats! Now that you have got her into your bed. You must be thinking that you’re only a step away from shagging her.

That was exactly how I felt during the first time when I brought a girl back to my place.

But it was also the first time, I screwed up. As bad as it sounds, it actually led me to discover a ridiculously no-brainer way that help me give women unforgettable orgasms every time we have sex.

Here’s what happen. Read more