The 10 Things That Women Tell Their Friends They Hate About You, In Bed

Have you ever heard what a conversation amongst women is like? Truth is, women do not only discussed topics such as the latest model of high-heels on sale or about their kids. Women do discuss about sex and it is apparently one of their favorite topics. Do not be surprise if they ever complain about your sexual performance to their friends.

So how do you prevent yourself from becoming the joke among your woman’s girlfriends? Simple, make sure you are damn good in bed.

Below are 10 common sex mistakes that many men commit when trying to get into a sex position.

Mistake 1: Pumping hard like a Jack Hammer.

The worst place any men can learn how to be good in bed is to learn from porn videos. Many of the sex techniques in these videos are designed only for visual stimuli. Pumping her hard and fast through out will only cause her to become sore more quickly.

Sex is not just a one sided affair. Instead of acting out a scene of a porn movie, pay more attention to her body language and watch out for things that she enjoys you to do.

Mistake 2: Staying in the same sex position throughout the session.

Think about it, do you enjoy it when your woman is only licking the tip of your penis for the next 10 minutes, without actually going down on you all the way? I’m sure it sucks big time.

It is also the same for women if you continue hump away in the same sex position for the next 20 minutes. Keeping your routine stagnant will eventually bore her and she may start to lose interest in sex, with you.

Instead, learn to transit from one sexual position to another without breaking the momentum.

Mistake 3: Attempting to be fanciful in bed.

Although it’s better to have variations in your sex techniques, do not over do it for the sake of impressing her.

Over complicating things can disrupt the atmosphere for good sex. Just stick to positions that she can get into easily and focus on stimulating her.

Mistake 4: “Dead Fish” position?

Don’t be mistaken, this is not a new sex position. In fact, this is a fairly common position where a woman gets on top of you.

The only difference, is that you are just lying there like a “dead fish” and not doing anything. Hence the name, “Dead Fish” position.

While you may be relieve that now it is your turn to lie on your back and rest, the deed is not yet over.

While you lie on your back, caress and fondle her bum as you suck on her nipples. This will further arouse her and it’s one of the proven methods that women get their orgasms from.

Mistake 5: Inferior Complexity in Bed.

It is okay to let her take control once in awhile to understand where she likes to be touch and stimulated.

Avoid asking her too much about how she feels in bed while you are at it, inside of her. This is a sure way turn her off as it shows the weakness of your uncertainty.

If you portray yourself as somebody who lacks confidence, she’ll pick up these signs and eventually she may even pass having sex with you. Women want a real man in bed not a weakling.

Mistake 6: Unkept Bush

Always have the habit of “mowing the lawn” before you engage oral sex with your partner. Most women actually prefer their men to trim their pubic area.

Having wisp of hair caught on her tongue would be a great way to say goodbye to your last oral sex you will ever get from her.

Mistake 7: Smelling like a dead squid

One of the biggest turn off for women in bed, is to smell as if you have not showered for days. Especially if you want her to go down on you, do wash yourself clean and apply some male pheromone infused perfume on your pubic area to entice her.

Mistake 8: Taking Things for granted

You should never be complacent and get used to your already stale sex routine. Doesn’t mean everytime she is receptive of your sexual advances or she expresses herself in a satisfying manner, means she is enjoying what you are doing.

Do not abuse your privilege of only satisfying yourself when you are in bed with her. Eventually she will feel that making love with you is only a one-sided affair and she may not be as enthusiastic about having sex with you in the future.

Mistake 9: Not being creative enough

Don’t be afraid of introducing foreign items into your love-making routine. You will be surprise to see how it will excite your woman when she is unable to expect what is to come after wards.

Introduce food such as whip cream, chocolate sauce or any of her favorite candy. Women get especially turn on if she see’s you licking off her favorite “sinful pleasure” off her body.

Mistake 10: Failing to communicate

This is by far the most important factor to be taken into consideration, if couples want to enjoy great sex with their partners. Women has more than one erogenous spot that will trigger orgasms.

However, not all women like stimulation in the same spot. What may have worked on your previous partner maybe result in a totally different reaction from your current partner. Take time to learn the hot spots of your partner. If necessary, ask her to guide your hand along her favorite positions.

P.S Now that you know the mistakes that majority of the men are making. It is important not to commit these errors if you want to stand out from the crowd. Go correct these mistakes and you can be sure that this time, your girlfriend will brag to her friends about your performance in bed instead!