3 Simple Tips to a Better Orgasm – Try Them Out Tonight!
June 2, 2009 by Orrick Lee
Filed under Featured, Orgasm

Women from earlier generations were brought up to be conservative, especially towards sexual issues. In the past, the women do not relate their sexual needs to their partners.
But, things have changed drastically ever since, as majority of present day women are expecting to gain sexual fulfillment from their partners. Women of today, no longer want to deny themselves the pleasure of a real female orgasm.
This makes it much more important that you equip yourself with the right techniques, to give her the orgasm she desires. A recent case study conducted on the women in America showed that, the number one cause for infidelity is sexual frustration.
Financial problems come in at second place. Ensuring your woman that she is sexually satisfied will not only keep her contented, but also keeps the relationship strong in the long run.
Below, are 3 very simple tips that you can apply to turn your sex life around for the better.
Tip 1: Variety is Bliss
If you continue to use the same position every time you make love to her, she will start to get bored after awhile. Do not be afraid to add variety to your love-making routine. Try alternative positions where she finds both comfortable and pleasurable.
The surprise of doing something differently and unexpectedly will certainly boost her excitement, and also help her to reach an orgasm much more quickly.
Tip 2: Creativity breeds excitement
Try to be creative. Modify some of the sex positions that you have always been using in bed. Instead of going into the regular missionary position where she spreads her legs wide while you get on top of her, lift up both of her legs and put them on top of your shoulders as you penetrate her.
You can also enter her from the rear, using one hand to reach down to her crouch and rubbing her clitoris at the same time.
By giving her simultaneous stimulation to both the g spot and clitoris the same time, it increases both her pleasure as well as the chances of reaching an orgasm.
You can also guide her to “sit” on top of you. This position allows her to take control of the speed and depth of the penetration; women know their hot spots better than you do. This is a good chance for her to pleasure herself without your help.
This position provides direct stimulation to her g-spot, which is where most women experience orgasm from.
Tip 3: Oral Sex – Escalated pleasure
Sexual intercourse is not the only a woman can get an orgasm from. In fact, you can give her an orgasm by gently licking on her clitoris and using your fingers to stimulate her g spot at the same time.



I find myself pleasuring my girlfriend in more ways than i ever could have imagined; thanks to your help Orrick. But i find myself ejaculating very very quickly and in doing not being able to let her satisfy me – which she loves doing. Any thoughts or comments for me to help things last longer on my part and so i can have sex longer, increasing both our pleasure.
Thanks so much,
Dan
Hello Daniel… There are many ways which you can do to prolong ejaculation.
One of the simplest methods, is to masturbate about an hour or 2 hours before you have sex with your girlfriend. Masturbation desensitize your penis temporarily just before you engage in the next sexual activity.
Another way, is to go really slow when you are thrusting her… But giving her lots of stimulation in her clitoris… That way, you’ll speed up her orgasms.. (Women experience orgasms from clitoris much more than vaginal penetration. But it varies from women to women)… Stimulating her clitoris the way she likes it, is surely a no-brainer way to her orgasm… Just remember to keep up your communication, and find out what she really likes.
You might wanna check it out here for more tips on controlling premature ejaculation.
Orrick Lee.