Sexual Communication – The Key to Female Orgasms
March 8, 2009 by Orrick Lee
Filed under Featured, Love Making Tips
Here’s what most guys don’t know about giving woman orgasms. The key to any woman’s orgasm, requires you to just use a little bit of common sense.
Well, not that you don’t have any… It’s just that we’re all surrounded by over-glamorized sex films that we’re made to believe what works and what doesn’t base on what we see in the media.
Allow me to let you take a quiz. What do you think is the number one cause for most misunderstandings between couples? Well, You might have already guess. The answer is, the lack of communication.
Well, this might have happened to you before. Just think about the last time you got into a heated argument with your partner.
Did she ended up telling you that you don’t understand her enough? And before you know it… Off she goes with her suitcase.
The importance of sufficient communication with your partners does not lies in just regular house-hold issues.
If you want to ensure that your woman get that mind-blowing orgasm with you tonight, then you better work on your communication skills.
All you need to do, is to find out what really gets her aroused. It’s that simple! Just ask her what she likes.
Besides, we were all taught in elementary school that if we do not know something, just ask. Not too difficult a task I supposed.
The problem with some men is, they allow themselves to be controlled by their ego. They always think they are the best in bed that whenever shit happens, they are always the last one to spot the problem.
Making a girl cum 3 times in a row doesn’t necessarily make you the King of the Hill.
What may work on your ex-girlfriend may not necessary be as pleasurable for your current partner. Women are individuals whose preference of stimulation varies from one another
What I recommend is, ask your woman to pleasure herself in front of you.
Then allow her to guide you to her favourite erogenous zones that is most satisfying for her.
Trust me, this will save you lots of precious time figuring her out. Forget about the books you read that tell you to spend more time stimulating one spot.
Truth is. the longer time you take to stimulate the same area; chances are, it will only cause her to become sore and painful.
It’s just the same as you trying to jerk off without actually ejaculating, for an hour.
Instead, go directly to her favourite spots during foreplay.
You will be amazed by how fast she can reach orgasm by the time intercourse begins. Saving her favourite spots for the last is a sure way to turn the heat up a notch!
P.S . Most guys tend to screw up immediately after foreplay and they DON”T EVEN KNOW what went wrong. Here’s some valuable advice from a female perspective .



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