Why Women Cheat and Why We Can’t Blame Them

Have you ever wondered why women cheat on their partners in the first place?

Especially when it seems that you’ve done everything you can to be the perfect man for her, yet it still didn’t work out.

Just before you show her the finger and call her an “ungrateful b*tch”, I need to tell you something really important.

YOU’RE PROBABLY THE ONE WHO’S BEEN SCREWING UP ALL THIS WHILE!

I know, I know… The truth hurts. It took me several FAILED relationships before I realized I got it all wrong.

Well, there’s a way to prevent your woman from cheating, without being an absolute jerk. Actually, you can once in awhile, to spice things up… But don’t be a complete A**hole about it.

So, why is it your fault that causes women to stray? First, we have to get right down to the source – A woman’s emotions.

There’s an “old” saying, which you might have heard a gazillion times.

It goes something like this, “Men need sex to feel loved. But women need love to have sex”.

If another man wants to get into the pants of your woman, he’ll first need to connect with her at an emotional level she has not experienced with you, to be able to tempt her.

All it takes for the other guy to succeed, is to get into a “heart to heart” talk with her or get her involved in a new experience she’s never had. And it’s enough to make her think about him the whole day.

If you guys remember “The Legend”, a very good friend of mine who taught me how to attract women, he literally stole a girl right under her boyfriend’s nose at a bar. The guy went off dancing with a couple of friends leaving both of us to “watch” his girlfriend. Apparently, she wasn’t feeling well that night and we were not in the mood to dance as well.

She looked rather glum. So “The Legend” asked her a question offhandedly, “When was the last time did you cry over a someone”? The next thing I knew, he’d sparked off a never-ending conversation with the girl and it kept her talking.

All he did was just listen; something that I’ve never seen him done before.

The following day, he asked her to join us at the “fish spa”.  We were required to soak our feet into a pool where there were many tropical fishes, nibbling on the dead skin cells.

She laughed and giggle and pretended to complain about it being ticklish. It was obviously something she hasn’t tried before and she was enjoying herself.

At the end of the day, I drove the both of them back to his place.

The point I’m trying to make is, women are emotionally vulnerable creatures!

Although they have very different reasons from men, when it comes to jumping in the sack with someone else; it’s almost too easy for any guy to get her to come home with him if he knows the right buttons to push.

Treating her overtly nice all the time or neglecting her feelings altogether is equally detrimental to your relationship!

Women needs a little unpredictability to have her emotional senses stimulated once in awhile!

Occasionally, you need to surprise her with things that reminds her of the attraction she felt for you when you first got together.

It can be little things like challenging her verbally, teasing her or even displaying your culinary skills. The idea is not to let your relationship becomes monotonous and routinized.

Don’t just look upon her as a lover. Instead, treat her like your brat sister where you get into little cute disputes with. You can also looked upon her as your buddy where you guys can do crazy stuff together.

Once you are able to connect with her at all her emotional levels, plus applying the techniques from the Sex Manuscript, she’ll be convinced that you’re her one and only soul mate she want to spend the rest of her life with.