How You Can Attract Any Women By Doing Less

Hey’ Welcome back! I hope you enjoyed your weekend as much as I  enjoyed mine

Alright, just a quick re-cap. In the previous article, I talked about how I met “The Legend” and learnt his unconventional methods to get laid in the same night of meeting any woman.

To be honest with you, no secret sex technique in the world is going to help you to get get more sex, if you don’t know how to court a woman.

Unless you have a reputation of being an “Expert at giving female orgasms”, your chances of jumping into the sack with the girl you are secretly admiring, is just next to zero.

Not to worry, this isn’t the end of the world yet. Like you, I too started out climbing up from the bottom of the sex chain.

Everything that I know about making a girl feel sexual attraction towards me, was learned, rehearsed and practiced, until I’m able to present my best self to a woman.

And you my friend, can also do the same.

Just as promised. Today, I’m going to share with you one particular lesson that I learnt from “The Legend” which has literally changed my perspective about courting women!

In the highly competitive society we now live in, many people feel the pressure to try harder in whatever they do, in order to get ahead. Apparently, this saying goes the same for dating as well.

In case you haven’t yet realised, a lot of men, have moved past the age of treating a girl exceptionally nice every time he sees her or constantly lavishing her with gifts

Such methods are already considered cliche and they don’t work as well anymore (If still don’t know about this, it means you’re not dating enough women!).

With the conenience of the internet, searching for dating tips has become much more accessible. Thus, it leads men to change their method of courtship.

While most advices today preach about not being a door mat to women or adopting a “badboy” like attitude,  women find most attractive. These methods often back fire and make you look like a complete a**hole if its not in your nature to behave in that manner.

You get what I’m saying?

There are a couple of guys I know who are always trying very hard to attract the woman they like. Some of them try too hard to prove themselves that they are really nice guys. But they are also the ones who spend the most money on women, without getting back anything in return.

Women labour them as losers.

The other group of guys are those that model themselves after the badboy persona. These guys try too hard to be cool, constantly pummeling women with excessive teasing and playing hard to get, without knowing where their limits are.

women have a couple of nicknames for these guys and I think you might heard of a few. They are, “Jackass, A**hole, Jerk, Moron”… Etc.

Look, forget everything you know about dating women. Let me share with you a new concept. Its called how you can attract any women by doing less.

All you have to do, is stop TRYING! Women have these radar like senses that tells them if you are acting to get something out of them.

Trust me, they know if you’re trying too hard to buy their attention or playing hard to get. It just reassures them that they have power over you!

Instead, take the back seat. Engage her without having a REWARD in mind.

Talk less by getting the woman to tell you more about herself and what she’s doing. The more you say, the higher your risk of screwing up by saying the wrong things.

So, just ask questions! Get the conversation going! You’ll be amazed by how much both of you can talk about, linking one topic to another just by asking open ended questions!

For example, if she is a waitress you whom you met at a Hooters’ bar, you can start off with something like “Hey, what kind of drink would you recommend to somebody who’s totally stepped over by his boss and needs to release all that frustration”?

Usually she will ask you about it followed by recommending you a drink or two (Don’t say anything negative that make you sound like a loser, tell her its your friend who need this drink)

Once the conversation gets going, you can ask her, “So what’s the worst kind of customer you have had”?, “What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done while at work”?

You see where is this going? There’s almost no end to it!

After having so much fun talking with you, she will eventually start asking about you.

The idea here, is to make the connection with her as a friend. I repeat, AS A FRIEND! She don’t even know you and having sex with you will probably be the last thing on her mind.

Every woman has that mental “shield” (Check out the video two blog post ago, that discussed about women’s shield) that protect themselves from creeps.

In order to get past her defences… Go on stealth mode! Move under her radar senses undetected by being her friend first. It’s the only way that you can move past her defences and get her to feel comfortable with you.

P.S Check back here again this Wed, I’ll be sharing with you one sex technique that make my girlfriend climax so many times in one night that I even had to fake my own orgasms! But if you need it urgently, this can save your day.