But hey, you are doing fine. In fact, I want you take a break from all that information. It’s time to let your partner reciprocate all the hard work that you have put in for her.

Here’s something for you to enjoy and don’t forget to show your partner too!

Well, it happened to me all the time.  From my experience of  “celebrating” Valentine’s Day with different women, I realised that being overly nice to them can actually back-fire on you.

If  you haven’t yet noticed, there is actually quite a controversy going on within their views on Valentine’s Day. Some women just don’t appreciate the idea of Valentine’s Day, and guess what? You are probably to be blame for it.

Some women believe that every other day should be just as special and guys shouldn’t just be nice to them only on Valentine’s Day.

The translation is simple. Women just don’t want you to be a jerk to them after Valentine’s day.

Below are the 10 steps that I do, to proceed from a date with a woman, to the bed with her.

1. Be Mysterious -Inform her at least a day in advance that you’ve got a surprise for her on Valentine’s Day Tell her that if she did not turn up, she’ll miss out all the fun.

Well, you can give her a hint or two.. But do not let the cat out of the bag. This builds up her curiosity and she will enthusiastically anticipate the things to come on Valentine’s Day. Trust me, she will not be able to take her mind of the day.

2. Be Unpredictable - Do something that she leasts expects you to. If you’ve always brought her to the movies, don’t do it on the day itself. By being predictable, she will start to lose her anticipation. Always keep her guessing…

I recommend that you find an activity that both of you have not done in a while or you can even plan up something new. I suggest that you find an activity that encourage lots of interaction that brings out the sexual vibe in both of you.

You can try going to a spa to learn how to give each other body massages or take up a dance lesson in Argentina Tango.  Remember… Hold the Sex for later. Instead of  going for the kill in a private place, hold your passion for later.  Remember, build her anticipation.

3. Make a gift for her - First of all, its usually cheaper. Second, women tend to appreciate something that you took the effort to do more than things of commercial value.

Tell her how long you took to make the gift for her. The longer the better.  tell her why you made the gift, Women are always fascinated with stories. Believe me, she will feel very appreciated and she will want to reciprocate her feelings by doing something you would like.

4. Flowers - There’s not much of a meaning in Valentine’s Day if you don’t give it to her. Its like celebrating a birthday without a birthday cake. I normally present her with a stalk of rose first. Then I present her with a bouquet of foam roses ( you can make it yourself or get someone else to do it for  you).

Then I’ll tell her that I wanted to give you something beautiful, but also one that lasts. Trust me on this one. Its not so much about what you give her, but how you give it to her.

If you say stuff like that at the wrong time, it may appear very mushy and corny. Say it only when both of you are relaxed,  in a setting of dim lighting and soft music. You will get a MUCH different but powerful result.

5. Ending the night at a private place - At the end of the night, is best that you arrange it at your own place where you can be in full control of the situation.

This is the point where most guys screw up. Most guys always end up looking like a sex deprived creep when they ask her to go back to their place. The more you hesitate, the more suspicious you look . Chances are, she’ll end the night sooner than you think.

The idea is to sound as casual as possible, do not make her feel obligated. You can tell her that you have just mastered a new recipe and you want to cook for her. But id she has a curfew to abide to, then you will send her home. Usually she will agree to come to your place!

6. After Dinner - The most crucial part that determines whether she’ll end up in bed with you or not. After dinner, show her around your place (only if she hasn’t been to your apartment). Show her photographs of yourself and as you do that, you can share with her some embarassing moments of yourself. It will open up her heart towards you.

7. Movie - Show her your movie collections, best if you set aside a couple of well acclaimed romance titles. Ask her what she would like to watch. Dude, don’t ever try suggesting Transformers or Lord of the Rings. Even though they are freakin’ good movies, it’ll spoil  the mood for sex!

Place a couple of pillows on your couch so that she can get comfortable in it.

8.  Desserts - I recommend chocolate fondue and fruits and Red Wine. As you snuggle close to her, offer to feed her.  Look, if you’re concentrating on the movie instead of her, then you are done.

9. Proceeding towards foreplay - Plant light kisses on her cheek occasionally. Smell her hair and tell her how good she smells. Tease her by putting a fruit in your mouth and offer it to her. As you guys chew on it, proceed to kiss her. Do not go all the way.

Remember about being unpredictable and building her anticipation. Then proceed a step further each time you repeat the same step.  Read my previous post, “The No Brainer Way To A Woman’s Orgasm.“. There are some foreplay tips being covered there.

10. SEX! - Congrats, you are finally one step away from the finishing line. Now you just wanna give her the best orgasm she’s ever had so she will beg you for it, the next time. Here’s how

I hope you enjoyed reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it.

I’ll be waiting to hear about your date, Cheers! =)