The One Thing That Every Guy Gets It Wrong During Intercourse

Last weekend, I met up with an old  high school friend that I’ve not seen in years. We had the usual catch up  dinner sort of thing at one of the local Thai-themed restaurants, called Sakura. The food is really good, especially the Oyster Ommelette.

Just in case you come here (Singapore) on a holiday, you might wanna go to the Far East Plaza Shopping Centre to check that out.

But I digress.

She asked me what I did for a living and I told her I write.

She was astonished.  After all, back in high school, I used to let her write all my essays for me. I suck  pretty much in almost every subject except chemistry. Heck, I even suck at art!

You must be thinking what a nerd I am.

Well, you are right. I was pretty much a nerd.  But, only ON THE INSIDE.

Anyway, back to the story. I found out that she had quite a spontaneous lifestyle. She did whatever that interests her and she never allowed herself to be tied up by one man. Over the past few years, she had done a lot of travelling, meeting new people.

She was totally different from the shy and reserved girl in high school. Come to think of it now, she must have gotten sick of  people taking her for granted all the time… I actually felt guilty.

“So what do you write about?” she asked.

“I’m writing about adult education”. I said, trying to divert the conversation.

Well, I can be pretty conservative in what I do, especially towards friends and relatives. To most of them, it always seems like a big deal whenever sex is involved.

The older generation would look at sex as if it was never part of their reality. To them, sex is obscene and shameful and should only be practised behind closed doors.

The younger generation however, tend to put sex on a pedestal. There was once, where a few of my friends were hoping to get lucky with women at a club.  They started going around telling women that there’s a  Sex Instructor amongst them, thinking it would attract their attention.

I think we both know, it’s not going to happen that way.

Anyway, she was really persistent. So I finally gave in.

“I’m writing a book about giving women better orgasms“. I admitted.

The rest of the night, is history… No, we didn’t have sex. But she gave me some really insightful information from a female perspective, which I want to share with you.

Her: I prefer to have a lot of interaction with my partner during sex.

Me: What do you mean by interaction?

Her: Well, I love to tease him and be teased in return. I like being tickled and it really turns me on to watch him remove my clothing slowly, piece by piece.

It can get really exciting, because I won’t know what he’ll be up to next.

Me: Nice… So what is the thing that most guys got it wrong during sex?

Her: Well, not kissing and cuddling enough. My last boyfriend literally head south everytime we begin. He doesn’t even go down on me. I actually felt like a whore doing it with him. He’ll just finish his deed and fall asleep right after.

Me: Yeah, foreplay is really important. I think women usually reach orgasms much faster if the foreplay was much longer.

Her: Exactly! It alsot makes me feel closer to my partner and I would want to do it with him, even more.

Me: So, have you faked orgasms when you were with your previous boyfriend?

Her: Yeah, I have to. I just want to get it done and over with quickly.

Me: Is it because he’s trying too hard to make you come that it hurts after awhile?

Her: Not really, I just find it really boring and a drag to do it with him.

Me: I know it sucks. You are definitely not the only women who have to put up with men like that.

Her: Yeah, and it’s so frustrating.

Me: A lot of women don’t come during vaginal penetration. What’s your take on that?

Her: It really depends. But I think I know where the problem is. Most guys tend to thrust in and out. Sometimes I can’t even feel him inside me if he goes too fast. But instead if he rocks up and down, I can come really quickly even if he leaves his penis inside me throughout.

Well, this conversation is as far as it goes. But, it pretty much sums up everything you need to do in bed, with your partner.

We bid our goodbyes and I told her I may need her to help me co-write the upcoming book as well.

By now you should know better than your peers that foreplay is really important to a woman.

Remember, when you’re already down south, do not make the mistake of  thrusting in and out like a porntstar. Keep your body close and rock her, as if you are grinding her.

I guess I shall stop here in case you get info-constipated. Try it out with your partner, and see the results for yourself!

P.S. I’m not sure if your woman ever comes clean with how she feels about having sex with you. But just to be safe,  have a look at this to have a better idea of what’s on her mind.

Female Orgasms And The Law Of Attraction

Just two weeks ago, I attended a 3-days life-changing workshop about the “Law Of Attraction” conducted by Jerry Hicks and his wife.

They explained how the Law Of Attraction should be applied in order to achieve the best success of getting anything that you desire.

After walking out the doors of the workshop, I was suddenly hit by a really crazy idea.

I was wondering  how I could use the law of attraction during sex!

I have discovered that many women today, are so used to not having an orgasm that the female orgasm is believed only to be a well-fabricated fable to give hope to sexually frustrated women.

This also affect some men who are already used to their poor sex life, are not able to tell the difference between when was the last time they had the best sex in their lives.

Truth is, mastering the techniques from the female orgasm Chinese” Sex Manuscript” is only half the battle won (not that I have all of it translated yet)!

All the techniques will not work if you only focus on the end result instead of  truly enjoying it.

So, what has female orgasms got to do with the secret law of attraction? Everything!

Have you ever had that obvious feeling that you know something is going to happen and it did, just like how you expect it?

It can be something as simple as your complete reliance on your alarm clock, to wake you up the next morning. Especially when you set it to the time accordingly, the night before.

Deep inside you, you just know that your alarm clock would ring no matter what! In fact, you are already so used to it as it happens all the time!

Here’s the kicker, what if you could give female orgasms every time you have sex with a woman, as if  its part of the norm, wouldn’t it be great?

The law of attraction works in such a way that if you are able to align the emotion of the “obvious feeling” of  “expecting the things to happen” to your heart’s desire, it will lead you to get what you wish for!

This rule applies the same if you want to help any women achieve the elusive female orgasm!

Before you proceed into the bedroom with your partner,  close your eyes and relax for a moment. Visualize your partner climaxing from the technique you learned in the Sex Manuscript.

Tell yourself that you are already equipped with the sex techniques that work best for your girlfriend and she will definitely experience body shaking orgasms from it.

Understand that things happen when you  take a desired action at some point in time. In this case, you have chose to learn the tips from the Chinese “Sex Manuscript“.

To summarise it:

1. Know what your intentions are when you have sex if a woman ( eg: giving her the experience of the female orgasm etc…).

2. Take the desired action (If you haven’t, do it now).

3. Visualize yourself succeeding in the deed.

It’s just that simple! Go have fun with it tonight! Right now, it is half past two in the morning in Singapore. I hope you enjoyed what I shared with you tonight, I’m gonna hit the sack!

I’ll talk to you soon, friend.

P.S. If you still have problem putting it to action… This may be a cure for you.

Faking Female Orgasms – Watch This Video To Uncover Her Secrets

A lot of debate has been going on about the extend women take to fake orgasms. Truth is, it takes a real professional porn star to be able to fake every detail of her orgasm.

Think about it, a woman is not having sex with you because she wants to put up a performance. But she wants to be sexually satisfied as much as you do!

Unless you are doing it with a hooker who just want you to ejaculate the moment you erect; just to get more value for money, you can pretty much spot your partner faking an orgasm (click here to see how it’s done).

Anyway, here’s a fun video that teaches women how to fake orgasms.

By the way, DO NOT show your partner this, Enjoy!

P.S . Hey, you might also wanna take a look at this. Haha, you can thank me later

Giving Woman Orgasms Is Much Easier Than You Think

I have a really silly question to ask. Have you ever watched Porn? You might be thinking, “duh”… Well, the answer is pretty obvious since you’ve already found your way to my blog.

But that’s not the point.

The point is, most guys F**K as if they are like porn stars! And it’s NOT a Good thing!

Here’s the story for most guys. “What should I do to make her climax? I just have to watch this porn video and do what the guy is doing, on my woman”.

So, does that mean if anybody wanted to learn how to fly without wings, all he need to do is just attach a red cape on his back with the letter “S” printed on it?

Now you get the picture don’t you? Most guys are actually kids in disguise. Read more

Squirting Female Orgasms – Here’s How To Do It!

Have you ever watched a porn movie, where the actress actually ejaculates when she climax?  It looks as if she is peeing, but usually they squirt much further compared to when they pee.

Many people believed that only a small percentage of women can actually experience squirting orgasms. But this is far from the truth. In fact every woman has the ability to squirt.

This video will show you just how to go about doing it.

P.S If you think that is all to it… You are wrong.  There’s more...

Is She Faking Her Orgasms? – The Story of Kynan

I happened to meet an old friend coincidentally at a bar, on the night just before Valentine’s.

His name is Kynan, a friend that I made during National Service. When ever we had a break from military training, we’ll always get into conversations about which girl he slept with and all the intimate details that went along with it.

He was naturally good with ladies, until he settled down, or so it seems.

He looks quite troubled and he wanted to talk. So after  sharing a couple round of drinks, he opened up to me and shared his problems.

“You know, I’ve always been good with women… But I think I’m losing it“,  he said. Read more

Multiple Female Orgasms – The 4 Steps I Did To Make her “Cum” 3 Times In 15 minutes!

Lets be honest with ourselves. How often do you ask your partner for sex compared to her taking the initiative to lead you into it?

I can tell you that most of the time when she has sex with you, it is not because she wants it badly, but to prevent hurting your so delicate ego. If you don’t believe me, ask her.

As time goes by, she will begin to lose interest in having sex with you altogether and you will hear her making excuses like “I’m tired” or “I’m not in the mood for it”.

What does it mean? In translation, “You suck in bed and I’m not going to have sex with you”.

That’s a wake up call for you my friend, a warning sign that she may walk out on you if don’t rectify the problem. If you can’t give her that orgasm that she hopes from you, eventually someone else will.

I’m not here trying to diss you man, but that’s the truth! Reality bites! The sooner you find out, the better your chances of saving your relationship with her.

Threathening to kill yourself to get her stay by your side its not going to solve the problem. I have a better solution for you.

What if I told you that you could just turn the tables around in a night and have her beg you for more sex instead? One thing for sure, I did.

I actually had to fake my own orgasm when my girlfriend came 3 times in a row! Within 15 mins, she was literally shaking on her third climax that I had to pin her down. She was almost completely exhausted when I was only beginning!

Nevertheless, my girlfriend continued. I knew she wanted me to experience the same pleasure like she did. She was forcing herself through the exhaustion and I just couldn’t bear to take my own sweet time.

So I faked my orgasm. I lied to her that I jerked off the day before which caused my “cartridge” to be empty. I reassured her that I felt very good before tucking her to bed.

Now, don’t say I didn’t warn you…  This could happen to you, if you applied the same technique as I did.

So far, I’ve only shared this 3-step method to only 3 guys and all of them became Sex Magnets in their own rights! Women just can’t seem to get enough of them!

Now its really up to you to become a Sex Magnet. The results are astounding!

Now, let’s get cracking!

First of all, forget what everything you think you knew about giving multiple female orgasms to women.

Forget about exercises that help you hold your ejaculation for a longer period of time. You are going against your nature!

Look, male animals in the wild don’t hold their cum. In fact, taking a longer time to thrust actually annoys the females.

The trick is not about having a higher resistance to immature ejaculation, but how to make women climax quickly before you do. If not, at the same time!

The quickest way to giving women multiple orgasms, is to simultaneously stimulate her sexually senstive areas!

Women experience orgasms from stimulation of her clitoris, G-spot, Vagina and most importantly, her mind.

The mind is the most neglected sexual organ in her body! In fact, the mind configures the body to become more sexually receptive which causes her to become very moist in her nether region and swelling in her erogenous areas.

STEP ONE:

Get into the “SPOON position” together with your partner. If you don’t know how to go about doing it, go to www.asianfemaleorgasm.com and download your copy of the sex manuscript. There’s an explanation for it on page 22.

STEP TWO:

As you enter her from behind, lift up her top leg from underneath her thigh. Get her into a comfortable position where you can place your fingers on top of her clitoris. Instead of rubbing her clit in and up down motion, rub it from side to side… Starting from a slow pace. Your thrusting should follow in the same rhythm. Gradually increase your speed and pressure as you go along.

STEP THREE:

Next, have her bottom leg shift backwards until its in between your thighs, like a scissors. This give youreasier access to her G-Spot when you penetrate her.

STEP FOUR:

Next, have your other arm around her shoulders and try to reach for her breasts. As you fondle her, hold her closely to you as you smell her neck and kissing her at the same time. Women always go crazy when you do that. It makes them feel very cherished and safe. This is the stimulation of the mind.

IMPORTANT NOTE:

Point to take note. Do all of these actions simultaneously and your rhythm should match each motion

Just like another skill… Don’t expect to master it immediately. I say give yourself 2 weeks!

In the original Chinese Sex Manual, this position was described as being in harmony with all the senses. In directly translation, it is called the “Union of Sensations”.

Try it tonight!

P.S  I actually learned some killer sex techniques from this lady, just thought of sharing the pot of gold with you.

I would love to hear your success story.

The No Brainer Way To A Woman’s Orgasm.

Congrats! Now that you have got her into your bed. You must be thinking that you’re only a step away from shagging her.

That was exactly how I felt during the first time when I brought a girl back to my place.

But it was also the first time, I screwed up. As bad as it sounds, it actually led me to discover a ridiculously no-brainer way that help me give women unforgettable orgasms every time we have sex.

Here’s what happen. Read more

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