Can Women Experience Orgasm From Intercourse Alone?

With all the controversy about whether women can reach orgasm through sexual intercourse at all… I betting that you’re just as eager to find out the truth!

So is it the stimulation of the clitoris that works best or is it G-spot stimulation… Or does it take stimulation to both of these areas that will drive a woman to wild orgasmic pleasure?

In this video, you’ll find out the REAL answers when the crew hit the streets, randomly interviewing women… Asking them if they can reach orgasms from intercourse alone.

My Battle With Premature Ejaculation… And How You Too, Can Overcome It – Part 3

It’s really important to understand how your breathing can actually affect premature ejaculation…

It’s been proven that short gasps of air can actually intensify and escalate ones’ orgasms much faster,  making you ejaculate prematurely.

When the air supply in your body is reduced… your anxiety level increases making your heart pump even faster.

This causes a surge of blood flow to your sexual organs as well. Thus, making you reach an orgasm, early.

To prolong the endurance for ejaculation… you’ll need to do the exact opposite. Instead of giving yourself in to immediate pleasure, you will need to control your breathing.

Take in slow and deep breaths and pause for a second, before you exhale. And when you exhale, pause for a second as well, before you inhale again.

Breathing naturally and in an unforced manner, further de-stresses your mind. By doing so, it gives you elevated control over your body (And your orgasm as well…)

Over anxious breathing massively cuts down your aptitude to control your sexual arousal, deep breathing does the contrary and gives you the control back.

The trick, is to pace yourself… And not rush into the excitement.

I hope you enjoy the tips that I shared with you on controlling premature ejaculation. Feel free to leave some comments below and let me know what you think =)

I’ll talk to you soon.

P.S. The techniques I’ve shared with you, are just some of the many techniques being taught in the  EjaculationTrainer Programme. Many men have already benefited from this programme (incluing myself) … And I just wanted to make sure that you didn’t miss out your share of the pie. Go ahead and try them out tonight, I promise you won’t regret it!

My battle with Premature Ejaculation… And How You Too, Can Overcome It – Part 2

Squeezing Technique

A variant of this method involves the partner squeezing the tip of the penis just before orgasm. This pushes blood out of the penis and reduces the erection.

The squeezing technique is very effective in controlling premature ejaculation. This is done by masturbating the penis till the semen is just about to be released.

Once you are on the verge of releasing your semen, quickly wrap your first two fingers and your thumb around the top portion of the penis (also known as the head) and squeeze it tightly, holding it there for 20 seconds…

By applying pressure to the frenulum… (the strip of skin that connects from the tip of the penile head, to under the head)

You cause the blood flow to momentarily disgorged, thus reducing the erection… This trains your body to get used to sensation of a delayed ejaculation.

Once the urge to ejaculate passes, you can again repeat this process for a couple of times.

This method is also known to increase the volume of semen during ejaculation.

Diversion

Another way is to divert your attention… while you are masturbating or having actual intercourse… The purpose here is to create a temporal detachment from the body and the mind.

By distracting your thoughts… your body becomes slightly “unaware” of the sensations around it.

This is to pre-condition your body to get used to extended stimulation, without having the urge to ejaculate…

If done properly, this could dramatically improve on your sexual endurance.

You see, men are sexually stimulated by visual stimuli... Imagine getting a lap dance from a strip teaser and you’ll find yourself getting a hard-on quickly.

The idea here is to think of something non sexual… in the midst of having sex, especially when you know that you are going to ejaculate soon.

You could think of something really funny, boring, frustrating… etc… anything that can take your mind of the pleasure you are experiencing…

You will realize that your erection will start to subside a little.

If you have been practicing the squeezing method or the controlling method that we discussed in the previous blogpost, you’ll become more aware of your body mechanism… knowing the exact precision to stop and to continue thrusting.

I hope this is of help to you.. If you like what you read, please leave a comment… Don’t be shy to ask a question if you’ve one… =)

In tomorrow’s blogpost, I’ll be sharing with you how proper breathing can dramatically slow down your ejaculation process.

P.S Once you start to see improvements in your ejaculatory endurance… You may advance to the The next stage… ( Recommended for non-beginners)

My battle with Premature Ejaculation… And How You Too, Can Overcome It – Part 1

Many guys would agree with me that Premature Ejaculation is one of the most depressing experiences any man can have, especially in the bedroom…

I too, had my own “unfair” share of struggles with this condition… where I would literally blow my load in a matter of just seconds into penetration.

It’s really depressing and embarrassing as well…

Do you remember that dreadful incident where your girlfriend or your wife begged you not to stop thrusting her, but the more you plunge your member into her vulnerably moist womanhood…

You find it even more difficult to control the urge to explode.

And before you know it, you’re already laying on your side of the bed… exhausted; while she is still good to go for the next round. (I’m sure you know what I’m talking about…)

That’s called premature ejaculation…

You probably won’t be surprised if I told you that there are also many guys like yourself, who also face the same dilemma… and also looking for that one cure to rid them of the “condition”…

Over the years, experts have argued over whether premature ejaculation is indeed a psychological factor or a physical disorder.

And the range of probable causes that could lead to a man’s premature ejaculation is almost uncountable…

• Early childhood experiences which provoked fear of discovery during masturbation may cause you to “rush” to complete sexual activity because you feel it is “dirty” or not permitted. Thus, it conditions the body to ejaculate quickly upon sexual stimulation.

• Impotence – while this itself, is a treatable physical condition. This may create an anxiety of the need to “get it done” before you lose your erection.

• Anxiety during the first experience of sex. Some men will develop a longer-term anxiety toward sex, which can cause a prolonged experience with premature ejaculation.

• A long period of abstinence from sex.

• Younger men tend to ejaculate more quickly than older men, as
experience seems to be associated with ejaculatory control.

• Stress: Financial problems, relationship problems, problems at work…

• Side effects of some prescription drugs

• Apart from psychological causes some physiological causes like inflammation of prostate gland or spinal cord problems may cause premature ejaculation.

• Staying up for long hours at night.

• Long gap between meals

• Under nourishment due to worries and grief

• Sitting for long hours in uncomfortable chairs… etc.

But here’s the thing… premature ejaculation is not a disease or a sickness for that matter. It cannot be cured.

But you can condition your body to unlearn the process of premature ejaculation. And train yourself to endure ejaculations and have harder erections… for longer periods of time.

In the next few  blog posts, I’m going to reveal to you 4 simple exercises you can apply, that have worked really well for my students and me…

First of all, you will need to have enough rest and sleep… maintain a balance diet of lots of fruits and water.

Next, you will need to be relaxed… if it means, playing your favorite classical cd in the background.. By all means, do that.

Training your body to get used to longer periods of erection and ejaculating duration is really simple. You can do it either alone or with your partner.

One of the best ways to combat premature ejaculation is by learning to control the sensations prior to orgasm. This method takes time and practice, but it is very effective.

Controlling ejaculations and erections for a longer period of time

If you’re alone…

Turn up your visual stimuli… It could be an adult video or magazine… Once you’re amply aroused, you can begin masturbating as how you normally would…

But here’s the tricky part… You need to stop jerking off immediately, the moment you feel that you are about to reach an ejaculating orgasm.

Do this a couple of repetitions until you are familiar with your body mechanisms… That way, you can easily pace yourself when you have actual intercourse.

If you were to do this exercise if your partner, you will need to practice going on to the verge of climax with your partner, by engaging in non-penetrative sex so that when you feel you’re about to come, signal her to stop… Then, allow your erection to subside.

This also needs to be repeated so that both your partner and you are familiar with the procedure.

Once you are ready, you can proceed with penetration… But if she’s on top of you… in a “Cow-girl” position, signal for her to stop “rocking” the moment you are near the point of ejaculation.

Go and try it right away! You are going to be pleased with the results!

P.S Check back tomorrow for two more ejaculation endurance exercises!

P.S.S The Ejaculation Trainer is one of the most sort after programmes that have literally transformed many men to become  much more confident in the bedroom… Check out their testimonials here and you’ll know what I mean. (I’ve personally used these techniques and have encourage my students to apply them as well… And we’ve never been prouder of ourselves…)

I recommend anybody who is looking for a quick and easy solution to prevent premature ejaculation, to give the Ejaculation Trainer a test-drive now.

3 Simple Tips to a Better Orgasm – Try Them Out Tonight!

Women from earlier generations were brought up to be conservative, especially towards sexual issues. In the past, the women do not relate their sexual needs to their partners.

But, things have changed drastically ever since, as majority of present day women are expecting to gain sexual fulfillment from their partners. Women of today, no longer want to deny themselves the pleasure of a real female orgasm.

This makes it much more important that you equip yourself with the right techniques, to give her the orgasm she desires. A recent case study conducted on the women in America showed that, the number one cause for infidelity is sexual frustration.

Financial problems come in at second place. Ensuring your woman that she is sexually satisfied will not only keep her contented, but also keeps the relationship strong in the long run.

Below, are 3 very simple tips that you can apply to turn your sex life around for the better.

Tip 1: Variety is Bliss

If you continue to use the same position every time you make love to her, she will start to get bored after awhile. Do not be afraid to add variety to your love-making routine. Try alternative positions where she finds both comfortable and pleasurable.

The surprise of doing something differently and unexpectedly will certainly boost her excitement, and also help her to reach an orgasm much more quickly.

Tip 2: Creativity breeds excitement

Try to be creative. Modify some of the sex positions that you have always been using in bed. Instead of going into the regular missionary position where she spreads her legs wide while you get on top of her, lift up both of her legs and put them on top of your shoulders as you penetrate her.

You can also enter her from the rear, using one hand to reach down to her crouch and rubbing her clitoris at the same time.

By giving her simultaneous stimulation to both the g spot and clitoris the same time, it increases both her pleasure as well as the chances of reaching an orgasm.

You can also guide her to “sit” on top of you. This position allows her to take control of the speed and depth of the penetration; women know their hot spots better than you do. This is a good chance for her to pleasure herself without your help.

This position provides direct stimulation to her g-spot, which is where most women experience orgasm from.

Tip 3: Oral Sex – Escalated pleasure

Sexual intercourse is not the only a woman can get an orgasm from. In fact, you can give her an orgasm by gently licking on her clitoris and using your fingers to stimulate her g spot at the same time.

The Things You Don’t Know About Multiple Female Orgasms

Women, who are unlike man, can experience multiple orgasms during sex. But there are actually two different types of multiple female orgasms that is not really known to many people. Some lucky women actually do experience it.

The good news is that, once you have understand the principles behind these two types of multiple female orgasms, you will become more aware of what is needed to be done to give her multiple orgasms.

A woman experiences two types of multiple orgasms. One is called the “Serial orgasms” while the other is known as “Sequential orgasms”.

Serial orgasms:

As the name suggests, serial orgasms come rapidly. A woman can actually experience a forth coming orgasm just within seconds of the previous one.

The most effective way to give her serial orgasms is, applying direct stimulation to the most sensitive areas of her erogenous zones.

The more knowledgeable you are in the anatomy of a woman’s vagina , the easier it is for you to locate those areas. After all, when it comes to multiple orgasms, knowing where to stimulate her vagina is of the utmost importance.

It saves you time on figuring her out and it also maintains her momentum of pleasure.

sequential orgasms:

However, sequential orgasms have much longer intervals in between each orgasms. Unfortunately, many men are not able to last the entire duration of sequential orgasms. (Here’s a solution for you.)

On average, most men usually reach an orgasm within 10 minutes of thrusting. But instead, most women take at least 20 minutes before she experience her first orgasm.

In order for you to give her an orgasm, you are got to have to learn how to control the urge to ejaculate. This is something that not many men can do.

One of the best ways to so this, is to masturbate a few hours before having sex with your partner. Masturbation can temporarily desensitize your penis, which makes it easier to endure an erection much longer.

You can also escalate the intensity of her orgasms by teasing her. Stimulate her clitoris to the point where she is about to have an orgasm. Then, stop suddenly for a few seconds to let her catch her breath.

Do this for a couple more times before you penetrate her. She will probably experience her first row of multiple orgasms faster than you can imagine.

The 4 Steps To Giving Great Oral Sex To Your Woman Until She Achieves An Orgasm

Here’s another way you can get your woman to reach an orgasm other than sexual intercourse or using foreign subjects like sex toys, for that matter.

You can also give a woman an orgasm from just oral sex alone, if you know all the right moves and techniques.

Some women actually prefers receiving oral sex to having actual intercourse.

There is however, a minority of women who do not particular enjoy receiving oral sex. But do not be discouraged.

Most of the time, the reason for her repulsiveness towards oral sex is probably due to past bad experiences.

It’s up to you now to show her how pleasurable oral sex can be. Just stick to these 4 steps and she will be in for an orgasmic treat.

Step #1 – Pick a Place

Choose a place that is relaxing and clean. Remember, most women cannot climax as fast as a man can. And therefore, they need to be in a place where they can get comfortable in. Choose a place where you will not be disturbed.

Step #2 – Warming Her Up

Lavish her with kisses. Start off by planting a light kiss onto her forehead, before exploring downwards to her lips and neck. Foreplay can releases her tension and will help her to get sexually aroused much more quickly.

Step #3 – Teasing Her

The idea here is to keep your woman guessing what your next move is. Be unpredictable and do something different for a change. Instead of rushing to undress her, pull off her panties slowly.

Stroke her inner thighs without touching her vagina. You can even rub your crotch to rub against her thighs just to get her turned on even more.

Step # 4 – Going Down on Her

Remember not to rush it. Continue to go slow. Lick her around the vagina, this includes her labia as well. Do everything at a random order so to keep her anticipating what you are going to do next.

Follow these tips in random order.

1. Lick her clitoris in circular motions with the tip of your tongue.
2. Use your hands to open her legs wide.
3. Push two fingers inside her vagina and stroke her g spot in an “come here” motion.
4. Suck her clitoris gently
5. Push your tongue in her vagina

Step #5 – Upon Reaching Orgasm

This is really important. when she is about to reach an orgasm, keep doing what you are doing. Do not attempt to switch to another form of oral stimulation at this point, as there is a high chance you would break her momentum of pleasure.

Some women may feel very pleasured when you suck onto her clitoris. Others may prefer you to just lick her clitoris in circular motion. The trick here is to stick to one technique that she finds particularly pleasurable, after you have tried everything.

You will not have to wait long for her to achieve her first mind-blowing orgasm from oral sex.

The “Finishing Move” Of Every Japanese Male Porn-star

You won’t believe what happened yesterday. My friend who came to visit me from Japan, asked if I wanted to watch him have sex with his wife!

And his wife is actually ok with it!

You must be thinking that their out of their minds.

But I guess you wouldn’t be too surprised if you knew both Taka ( my friend) and his wife, were former Japanese porn stars in the early 90s.

It must be pretty normal for them to have people watch them have sex all the time.

So here’s how it all began. 

I read an article about the Japanese Porn industry, about a year ago. It reported that japanese porn actors had to go through a series of training and had to pass a “sex test” before they are cast in a film.

The male porn-actors had to know how to literally make their female co-stars reach orgasm on the scene itself!

That’s what I call quality porn… I supposed that’s the reason why Japanese woman have this reputation of being “fast-cummers”.

Just in case you didn’t know, most western female pornstars fake their orgasms all the time. 

Only a small percentage of them, actually experience true orgasms, if the guy’s good enough.

Anyway… The article I was reading, was also looking for sex coaches to train Japanese male porn actors.

The money’s really good and I knew I would do great at the job. 

The only problem was… I can’t speak Japanese for nuts. And if you can’t speak a word of their first language, you probably won’t even qualify for a Janitor.

But I had another agenda… I wanted to meet a sex-coach from Japan. I wanted to learn something. 

So after surfing on the net for awhile… I found Taka’s profile on Mixi – a Japanese social Network website. Fortunately he speaks a little English, so communication wasn’t a big problem. 

And we have been sharing Sex techniques over the internet ever since.

I later found out that he was a porn star before he became a sex coach. 

I met Taka and his wife for the first time, yesterday. Taka looked exactly the way he was in his pictures.

You wouldn’t be able to guess his profession if you were to judge him from the first impression.

I greeted his wife with a nod, I can’t help but notice how attractive Taka’s wife was. 

She held her hair in a bun, leaving her fringes down the sides of her face. 

She’s had really fair skin like most japanese women, and she was really volumptuous. Everywhere she went, eyes were all on her.

I didn’t want to be rude, so I tried to avoid looking at her.

I showed them around town, took them up to the famous Singapore flyer. The Singapore flyer is a big ass ferris wheel on the coast of the marina, supposedly bigger than he London eye.

Not to sure if it was ever noted in the Guiness Book of records.

Taka’s wife made a remark about how Porn producers in Japan would scout for locations like this to film a sex scene. 

I raised an eyebrow. I thought it was an awesome idea… Can’t really imagine watching a couple having sex by the window of one of the cabins.

With all the attention from the people below, it would have been the biggest tourist attraction.

But then again, they’ll probably all get arrested even before they have their clothes off. Singapore has really strict laws.

We headed down to one of the local seafood restaurants for dinner. We discussed a lot about SEX… Not in a superficial way, but the difference between Western and Asian Cultures.

Taka was intrigue with my knowledge about female orgasms.

He said that many of the female orgasm techniques I described from the Chinese Sex Manual, were rather similar to what Japanese male pornstars were trained to do.

But they were also some subtle differences.

The more I shared, the more excited they became… Not sexually.

Then he said suddenly, “Why don’t we all go to back to the hotel room. Maybe you can guide us how to do it the chinese way”?

He repeated his question again, probably because I stared at him blankly that he thought I didn’ hear what he said.

No words can described how I was feeling at that moment.. It was really weird. I actually felt touched.

Here I was several years ago, a desperate loser who once got dumped by girls because of my poor sex skills. But Now, a Sex coach who trains Japanese Porn actors, wanted me to to guide him!

I have indeed come a long way from who I was before, I thought.

To cut the “already long story short”, I shared with him My “2 step Method” which you can find in my previous posts. And in return, he showed me the Finishing Move of every japanese Male Porn Star.

“The finishing Move” is a classic Man on top, woman below position.

1. His wife was lying on the bed and he entered her from the front. His back kept straight, such that both of them formed an “L” shape.

2. His knees were on the bed, with his butt resting on the back of the heels… The balls of the feet on the bed, supporting his weight.

3. Next, he lifted her slightly so that her hamstrings were on his thighs.

4. He started thrusting her in a small but rapid motion. He was using his knees to generate the momentum instead of his hips… It’s like he’s rocking back  and forth.

5. Taka, said that the secret is not to have more than one quarter of your penis out from her vagina when you thrust.

6. He used both hands to grab her hips and pulled her against his pelvis each thrust he makes.

Within a few minutes, his wife started grabbing on the sheets and she started gasping for breaths. She moaned even louder… I wouldn’t be surprised if anybody could here us from outside.

Her body was literally shaking… It was like she was having a fit! It was really ecstatic. I would be lying if I told you that I wasn’t the least turned on by her. It was like watching PORN … Live!

Then, it was Taka’s turn to reach orgasm. Then both of them held each other in a brief embrace.

All three of us looked at each other and smiled… We all got what we wanted.

 

 

 

A Woman’s Perspective On Intensifying Female Orgasms

If your woman has never been able to achieve that mind-blowing orgasms that everybody’s talking about. This could be the reason why. You should let your girlfriend or wife see this!

Intensified Orgasms – What Women Discuss With Their Friends That You Don’t Know About

Do you know that women actually discuss their sex life in detail, among their girlfriends?

Some of the things they discussed are so out of this world that we wonder why they never tell us about it.

In this video, you’ll get  inside their inner circle and listen on their secrets of  experiencing intense female orgasms!

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