Women Discussing About The Best Orgasmic Position!

It’s true that there’s no such thing as a “one-size fits all” sex position. So don’t be too hard on yourself when your partner is not responding well to it. The shape of woman’s vagina varies differently from one woman to another.

So what may work on others may not necessarily work on your partner. The trick is to keep exploring and finding out where and how she likes to be pleasured. In this video, a group of women get together to discuss about their favorite orgasmic sexpositions… Enjoy!

She Swallowed it!

“Does your girl swallow your “cum”"? Brad asked, when he drove me back to my place after a hard night of partying at a local thai pub .

He confessed that he had a hard time persuading his girlfriend to swallow his “man-juices”.

Brad had been seeing this girl for about a year now. They have practically done almost everything in bed together. But apparently, she has never made past her reluctance to swallowing  his cum.

When he asked me whether Jen has a problem with swallowing  it, I didn’t had an answer for him at that point.

I hesitated for awhile before telling him that I’ve never explored that “far” with Jen. I didnt’t care if he bought it or not.

But the truth is, Jen does it all the time…But I just didn’t want him to get any weird ideas and start looking at her in a different way. It’s  gonna feel awkward since we hang out together a lot.

Clearly, having a woman swallow your cum can be one of men’s biggest fetish. But a woman doesn’t get the same gratification as you, when she swallows.

Even if your partner is actually willing to swallow your load, chances are… She’s only doing it out of reciprocating her love for you. It’s definitely not because she’s crazy about it’s cosmetic properties nor the taste, for the matter.

You may not know this. to a lot of women, swallowing “cum” is equivalent to appearing on Fear Factor and eating weird looking bugs.

Some would probably compare it to something much worst.

Jen actually thinks it tastes just like eating rotten fish.

When Jen and I first started having sex, I was only allowed to ejaculate inside the condom.

But subsequently, I realized that the more I pay attention to her needs,  the more receptive she becomes to the idea of swallowing my cum.

One day, after I gave her an orgasm, I asked her, “Do you know what really turns me on? I would like to see you swallow my cum”.

And she’s been doing that whenever we have sex. Okay… most of the time, depending on her mood. But usually when she is fully “sextified”, I always got what I wanted.

Well, I wouldn’t take all the credit. The fact, that Jen and I have been seeing each other for about 4 years really helps. We’re always giving and compromising to each other needs.

You shouldn’t force it down on her if she’s not ready. Women hate to be treated like a sex toy, unless she tells you otherwise.

Especially when she haven’t done this before, take your time and be patient with her. Find out what she likes you to do in bed and always fulfill her needs first before talking to her about swallowing your cum.

It’s not gonna be easy, but it pays to be more attentive to her needs. Go home and try it out on your woman tonight!

A Cherished Woman Is A Horny Woman

Someone once told me, “A cherished woman is a horny woman”.

Back then, I had no idea what he was talking about. But after years of screwing up, I realized that it actually makes alot of sense!

A cherished woman, is indeed a horny woman!

In my previous post, I talked about how differently men and women view sex.

For men, we  feel a woman’s love through sex.  But on the contrary, Women need to feel loved, then they’ll want to have sex.

It’s the conflict between these two different mentality that many couples face the frustration of not being understood by their partners.

This lack of understanding between man and woman can eventually lead to a “dull” sex life or even no sex at all; in the long run!

Let me ask this.

Have your loved one, accused you for not loving her enough?

Well, I’m sure you know what I mean.

You probably  have also noticed that she doesn’t seem as enthusiastic about having sex with you as before.

In fact, she’ll sometimes make excuses like… I’m not in the mood right now, I’m having a headache, not right now or I’ve got work tomorrow… etc. Basically things that mean, “I don’t want to have sex with you”.

When it seems that you’ve provided her with everything she needs, she’s still complaining that you are not doing enough.

And even worst, she thinks you’re only with her for the sex!

You see,  most guys only give what we think  a woman needs. But in reality, we’re not giving her exactly what she wants – That’s what she’s really frustrated about.

So what is it she wants?

Look buddy, you already got the hints.

“Women need to feel loved, then they’ll want to have sex with you”  and “a cherished woman is a horny woman“.

All you have to do, is to show your love to her!

Shower her with affection.

Little gestures such as offering her a sincere compliment or giving her a kiss when she least expects it, makes her feel cherished and appreciated.

When making love to each other, all she wants is for you to hug her from the back and cuddle her after she helps you to reach an orgasm.

Every time you fall asleep right after you get off, it’s only going to make her feel used - Like a Sex toy.

When I say sex toy, I mean “chucking” her aside right after you accomplished what you’ve done – Blowing your load, that is!

Sometimes, its not all about giving your woman orgasms. That’s only part of the equation.

If you want to continue to have more sex with your loved one,  be more affectionate to her. It’s not the big things.

But the little things  that you do, shows her how important she is to you.

If you can do that, and successfully give her orgasms with the techniques you learned from the Sex Manual. I can assure you, that you’ll be the only man she’ll think about.

Putting On A Condom With Her Mouth

Hi friend,

thank you for keeping up with my blog =)

I just found a really cool video, which I wanna share with you…

Safe Sex has never been more fun than this!

I had Sex With My Friend In The Bathtub, On Her Birthday

Yesterday, I did something really wrong. I actually slept with my best friend, Wendy, on her 26th Birthday.

Now things between us seem to get really weird, Wendy left me text messages saying that she wanted to talk to me about what happened last night. But at the same time, she wanted to be left alone for awhile.

I wish that none of it happened. Wendy’s the closest best friend who’s always there went I needed her.

But, now I’m at risk of losing her.

I must have been too drunk to realize what I was doing.

This is the story that I tell everybody.

But you probably think that it’s just a lame excuse for me to get into her pants without feeling guilty. Perhaps, you’re right.

Anyway, this is what really happened.

It was Wendy’s 26th birthday and I booked a large room at the Orchard Hotel for the celebration.

It was supposed to be a surprise. Our friends had gathered at the hotel room since morning, to decorate the whole place and planning how to “punk’d” her.

So the plan was, I had to go pick her up from work and then take her out for a simple lunch.

I also had to pretend to forget about her Birthday.

We had our lunch at MC Donald’s. Wendy tried hinting me in between conversations implying that I must have forgotten something really important.

So, she finally blurted out that it was her Birthday. She was really disappointed that she still had to remind me, after being good friends for seven years .

But I had to stick on with the plan.

I acted really apologetic and said that I would make it up to her and all. I told her that I had to drop something off for a friend at a hotel first, then we’ll go out for a celebration.

She didn’t speak a word in the car at all, throughout the journey.

We arrived at the hotel a short while later, the door was slightly a jar and the room; dark.

I told her I’d be in a jiffy as I entered. She waited for about 10 minutes before deciding to enter the room to check out on me.

As soon as she walked into the hotel room, the lights went on. Confettis shot out from every corner of the room and everyone shouted out a synchronized “Surprised”! They must have been rehearsing the whole day, I thought.

The decorations were really neat, from the “Happy 26th Birthday” banner hanging from the ceiling, to the balloons that covered most of the floor.

The cake was the most enticing of all. It was her favorite flavor. Vanilla Ice-cream.

Wendy was moved to tears. She came over to hug me. “You had this planned all this while”? She asked, with tears in her eyes.

“What can I say, you’re my best friend”. I said, smiling at her.

Throughout the evening, we had a really wonderful time together.

Then for the final “event”, we combined 4 twister sheets together and we started playing. We were a big group.

But the game was a little different. We had cake smeared on certain colours. The forfeit was, to eat the cake from the colour. (I know its gross, that’s just some of the crazy stuff we do).

At the end of the night, almost everybody had cake on their faces and clothes. We spent about 2 hours clearing up the place.

I had a little too much to drink as I was prepared to spend the night at the hotel.

When everybody left, I slumped on the couch with vanilla cream still on my shirt.

Wendy came by  and dragged me out of bed… “Hey, you are going to dirty the couch” She said. “Come, I’m going to get you cleaned up”.

“Why don’t you just fill the tub, I don’t think I can make it to the shower without falling on my ass”. I murmured under my breath.

Wendy came by awhile later and dragged me to the bathroom. She lifted me up and I just slumped over her. Now, she had cake on her clean shirt.

“Orrick” ! She cried.

We entered the bathroom together. She really did fill up the tub with water and bath foam. The bathroom was filled with a strong aroma. I guess it was lavender.

Wendy removed my shirt and I leaned against her for support, with my arms around her.

“You smell really nice Wendy,” I said in my half-drunken voice. “You smell just like the cake”.

“Stop it Orrick, You’re making me ticklish”, she chuckled.

Almost instinctively, I gave a kiss on her neck and i lightly suck on her earlobe briefly. “See, I told you. I said. “You even taste like the cake”.

“Stop it” she said softly, looking into my eyes intently.

Somehow, Wendy seems to enjoy it. But I wasn’t too sure.  “What are you talking about”? I said as I swayed towards the bathtub. Wendy caught hold of my hand just in time, before I fell in. “If you leave the cake out for too long it’ll turn bad”. I continued. “Let me taste something else”.

Then I leaned forward to kiss her lips.  Surprisingly, she didn’t resisted or push me away. Instead, she returned the kiss.

“Your shirt is stained too”, I said meekly. “You’re gonna dirty the place too”.

Wendy smiled. Then I removed her shirt  and we continued kissing.

We removed our clothes as we entered the bath together. I looked at her, speechless.

I’ve never seen Wendy the way I saw her now. It never occurred to me that Wendy could be this sexy. She had small breasts, but it was perky and wholesome.

If there was anything about her body that caught my attention, it was her butt. She didn’t had the perfect body of a Victoria Secrets’ model. But she has one of the tightess a** I’ve seen.

I was really tempted to squeeze it, but I didn’t.

You know, this has to be one of the few moments of human impulsiveness where you have this sudden urge, to do something really irrational. If  I was anymore drunk than now, I would have startle her.

I sat with my back against the tub and I guided her to sit in front of me, with her back on me.

I continued smelling her hair as I gave her a light shoulder massage.

Wendy turned over and smelled my neck as well. I knew that we have already established a sexual connection.

I reached over to massaged one of her breasts, and “jumped” a little. Obviously still not used to my touch.

“Don’t worry”… I assured her. “Its just you and me”. She relaxed and we continued kissing.

My hand moved from her breasts down south. I massaged her adomen and her hips. I didn’t want to blew it by rushing.

It was another 10 minutes of smelling, light kissing and touching before she took my hand down to her netherland.

She moaned as I rubbed her clitoris gently. Then I guided her to switch positions and I led her up to sit at the edge of the tub.

I went down on her. “You know Orrick, I always wanted you to do this” She finally confessed.

I was surprised. But I didn’t let that stopped me.

After awhie. I stood up from the tub to stretch my back. I was getting sore in knees from the kneeling.

Suddenly, I felt a warm wetness engulfed my member. I wasn’t looking when she took my p.enis in her mouth.

She held my test.icles in her hand, massaging it. I always thought she was someone gentle. But the treatment I was getting, changed what I thought I already knew about Wendy.

She was Vigorous for a good cause.

Then I turned her around and I proceeded to take her from behind. She moaned. I reached over to rub her clit to increase her stimulation.

Whithin the next few minutes, she was making noises I never thought would come out from her.

This is Wendy, the closest Girl best friend I’ve had since college whom I never lusted on. But now, she was now feeling my manhood inside of her.

Wendy had her fair share of suitors. But, I’ve never thought of her that way or got attracted to her in that sense. She was just… My best friend.

I came inside of her and she didn’t mind.

The rest of the night, we held each other to sleep in our bathrobes.

She took off the next morning while I was still asleep. Wendy left a note saying that she had to rush off to work and she prepared breakfast for me.

I tried calling her cellphone but she hadn’t picked up the whole day. I only recieved her text messages this morning.

But I’ve to admit. The sex was good even though it lasted for about 20 minutes.

I sat down and analzyed the whole process, and I came up with a conclusion. Foreplay in the bathroom is one of the most sensual way of making your woman feel  comfortable  with you sexually.

Especially when she is very self-conscious of her body, soaking underneath the bath foam in the tub is a good way to help her relax as you massage her.

Okay, I’m ending it here… I hope Wendy calls back. I kind of having mixed feelings about this already.

Anyhow, thanks for hearing me out. I’ve actually learned something out of this whole scenario – for the good I supposed, and I hope you did as well.

I’ll talk to you soon.

How To Be The Perfect Guy For Your Woman

Ok, you might have already known this. Women don’t get turn on the same way as guys do. But I’m just gonna organize the differences  so we’ll all get a clearer picture.

We men, get sexually turn on by physical attraction, meaning… If we see a hot girl walking on the streets, the first thing that comes to our mind is, “It must feel really good banging that ass”.

Wheras a woman has a different attraction mechanism. If she sees a hot looking guy, she’ll more likely to go, “I wonder where he gets that tan?” or “He seems really mysterious, I wonder what he’s like”.

Her “sexual” switch will only be turned on until she feels an emotional connection with that person.

Here’s the thing… Most guys want a hot beautiful woman lying next to them in bed. But if she is somebody with a nice personality and character… It’ll be considered a bonus to him.

Women on the contrary, prefer to wake up next to a man whom she feels secure with and can depend on.

To her, having a hot looking guy who meets her requirements would definitely be the best of both worlds.

Having said that, first impression still counts.

If you give her a choice between a well-groomed healthy looking man and a guy who looks like he haven’t shaved in years and haven’t got his teeth brush, who do you think she would pick to go on a date with?

You guess it, the better looking guy of course.. He’s the bonus.

Today, I’m going to share with you how to make yourself more desirable to women and be that BONUS that they have been looking for.

Here’s the hint, Women are very inclined to their senses. Sight,Smell,Hearing, Taste, Touch. Once you are able to stimulate her senses all at once, you will naturally appear more desirable to her.

First of all, you need to groom youself. Women are especially particular about this. She wants a responsible man who takes pride in his appearance.

Women view your grooming as a reflection of how well you will treat her.

We’ll start off with your hair. Forget about the barber, I always had a hard time trying to make my hair less squarish, if you know what I mean.

If you want style, invest in a good hairstylist. Don’t tell your stylist what you want. But, allow her to decide what’s best for you.

After all, they aren’t getting paid to be hairstylist for nothing you know…

Once it’s done…  Make sure your face is clean and hair free. You can keep a little goatee down your chin but not the whole face.

It can be quite a turn off for women when it comes to kissing.

You should always make “love-making” convenient for your woman.

If you have a greasy face and black heads all over, go to a facial spa and let the therapist take care of you. That’s one thing I’m glad I did, before meeting my date.

Next, have your your fingernails trim short… This tells alot about you. It shows women that you pay attention to details.

And of course, you need to get some new clothes. Here’s one thing I don’t trust myself with.

I don’t pick my own clothes. When it comes to fashion, women have a very different taste from men.

If  your sense of dressing was never part of a conversation with women (or in a bad way, if any)… Chances are, you didn’t really make an impression standing out from the rest of the dudes.

I normally let women pick my clothes. We’ll go shopping  and I’ll let them dress me up. Women knows best when it comes to what’s hot and what’s not. .

One thing you should never neglect. You need to have a nice pair of shoes. Women are absolutely big lovers of fanciful shoes.

Even if it’s the last thing that you bother to take notice when it comes to dressing up, to win their heart, you have to share at least one thing in common with them.

Especially something that is visible and they can really relate to.

Next, go to a jewelry store. Get some acessories to add flair to your clothing. It don’t have to be really expensive.In fact, you can get many uniquely crafted designs below 20bucks.

I got many of my accessories from my last trip at BangKok. Accessories can be really good conversational topics

You can either get a necklace, a ring or a bracelet that has some monumental value attached to it. Heck! if you can’t find one… Just think of a good story. Trust me, it works all the time.

I recommend that you wear a dark shirt and have a necklace with a gold/silver pendant around your collar instead of your neck. Let it hang over your first buttom. The contrast is really eye catching.

Now that you’ve already look good, you have to smell good as well. Apply some cologne. Women are really attracted to smell.

I recommend that you buy a pheromone induced cologne that arouse women’s sexual desires, like attracting bees to flowers. You can get it off from your local sex novelty shops.

Bring a breathmint where ever you go. Bad breath is a biggest turn-off… It can actually over write everything you’ve done to be the perfect guy for her.

So don’t let your efforts go to waste. Pop a mint before you go out to meet her.

Now that you are all set… And you are already out on a great date with her, enjoying a sumptuous dinner.

Go to a private place where the both of you can share quality time together. Offer to feed her dessert and  don’t be afraid of cozying up to her and smell her hair.

Then, Stroke her back and give her a gentle rub on her shoulders..

Speak to her in a slow and almost whisper like voice to seduce her. Tell her how nice she smells and you just want to cuddle her throughout the night,  just smelling her.

Women enjoy the attention that you are giving them

Now that you have stimulate all her senses,  you are already setting an emotional anchor. Everytime she has this wonderful experience, she will be reminded of you.

At this point she’ll be hot for you…

It took me quite awhile to piece everything together. But now, you can have the knowledge within a few minutes!

So use this to your advantage my friend. Remember, It’s not about the big things that you do for women, it is about paying attention to little details that sums everything up.

I think it’s time for you to hurry up to the hair salon now, my friend =)

Cheers!

Sexual Communication – The Key to Female Orgasms

Here’s what most guys don’t know about giving woman orgasms. The key to any woman’s orgasm, requires you to just use a little bit of common sense.

Well, not that you don’t have any… It’s just that we’re all surrounded by over-glamorized sex films that we’re made to believe what works and what doesn’t base on what we see in the media.

Allow me to let you take a quiz. What do you think is the number one cause for most misunderstandings between couples? Well, You might have already guess. The answer is, the lack of communication.

Well, this might have happened to you before. Just think about the last time you got into a heated argument with your partner. Read more

Why This “Hypnotic” Emotion Triggers Her Orgasm Almost Instantly

Guys forget all the sex postions and techniques you’ve learnt about giving a woman the best orgasms she’s ever had, for a moment.

To tell you the truth, these are only secondary.  Some women can even climax just by gentle sucking and licking around their nipples! Can you imagine looking at your woman in orgasmic ecstacy when you have barely started?

It will no longer be the question of her climaxing or not. But rather, how many orgasms did she experience in one single love-making session with you!

There is this little trick that I can assure you that most men are not aware of. The  secret lies in her emotions!

I went out with this girl for a couple of months before we broke up. It was a really bizzarre relationship. If  you were a mutual friend you would be surprised how the hell we were able to last this long. Read more

How to Get Her To Give You Better Blowjobs

Here’s something that I discovered few years ago. Majority of the women hate giving oral-sex!  But here’s a secret that you might not know, most of them actually give excellent blowjobs!

Yes, I’m serious! its just that they haven’t given you the best one you can get from them.

I mean… C’mon, think for a moment. How difficult can it be, giving a blowjob?

Its not like we are born with 3 dicks and G-spots hidden everywhere. We are only ultra sensitive from the top of the penis to the middle.

In fact, most women agree that giving oral-sex to men is similar to sucking on a lollipop.

The worst it can get, is you having to tell her to hide her teeth while she’s going down on you or guiding her along with verbal instructions. Read more

Unconventional Romantic Ideas That Got Me More Sex!

Hey man, how’s it going? Good? I hope you are feeling that way because I’m going to share with you some romantic ideas that you don’t find in other romance book.

Most of all, you are going to have more sex if you apply the steps correctly.

Let me ask you a question. Have you ever dream of getting laid with the hot girl that you are friends with, but you never had a chance to date?

Today, you can change all that.

A couple of years ago, I was just like you, looking for new ways to improve my sex life and most importantly, how to get more sex.

But most of the information I found was about how to give a woman an orgasm through clitoral and G-spot stimulation.

Back then, there were not many websites that explain the process of how to make a woman become receptive to your sexual advances.

After all, what is the point of memorizing theories when you can’t even get a woman in bed?

To save you the trouble of going through the unnecessary trial and error that I went, I have decided to share with you my bag of tricks so you won’t have to go home alone again.

Now, back to reality. If you have been dating this chick for quite some time now and you haven’t got into her pants yet. Trust me; someone else will beat you to it, eventually.

First of all, you need to plan a good day for a hot and intimate love-making session before hand. Always be prepared so that you can take control of the situation and build her mood towards intimacy.

Planning the “Big Day”.

Find out if she is available at least one week in advance. By giving her an earlier notice, she will have enough time to re-arrange her schedule for you.

Next, tell her that you have planned up a really interesting date and how much fun both of you will have if she comes along.

Do not tell her exactly what you will be doing. Instead, keep her guessing by dropping hints on what she can expect from the date with you.  Women love guys who appear mysterious.

It just drives them crazy, not being able to figure you out.

Always be unpredictable, you can be sure that she won’t be able to take her mind off the date until the actual day itself.

Next, tell her that in order to be fair, she has to plan a program or do something for you on the day itself as well.

This adds on to her perceived value of what you have planned for her, it also gives her the chance to reciprocate. After all, it takes two hands to clap.

Now, what you need to do is to brain storm as many romantic ideas of what you can do on the date. This should not include going to the movies or any other regular date that you have been on.

Romance is not all about red wine and fanciful dinner. Romance starts in the mind, from the moment you interact with her and the attention you pay to her needs will affect how she will feel towards you.

Women find these gestures very romantic when you do it unexpectedly.

Do not be predictable just like the other 85% of the guys who only take her to the movies, women love new experiences and adventures.

Instead, surprise her on the date by doing something new and interesting together.

Here are some activities I recommend, that I personally have achieved great success with:

Bungee Jumping, Sky-Diving, Rock Climbing, Scuba-Diving, close interactions with animals in the zoo, etc…

Activities such as these usually bring out humorous circumstances where you can take advantage of by teasing and flirting with her.